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heyY! mY namE isZ karyN! i'M 14/F/ohiO! y0o gotT questionS..I gotT answerS! asK awaY! i'lL B shurE tO getT tO yeR questionS righT awaY!! x0Lallyp0p
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hello. well im having some problems with this guy who i am talking to. he and i get a long great we talk for hours, all through the night and all day. me and him have been talking for 4 monthes and we went out for about one month but me and him still talk everyday every minute we can- but the problem is he one day he tells me he loves me and then the next day he is like i dont love you and i dont want to be more than friends with you and he can be such an asshole but then he can be so sweet. and i just cant let him go, it doesnt matter what he does to me, and i mean he has hurt me really bad but i always go back to him because if i didnt it would be a huge part of my life that is missing, if would be just an empty whole that i wouldnt be able to fill because of how often we talk, he calls me everyday! and just dont know what to do because ya he hurts me but i think it would hurt more if i didnt have him anymore. so what do you think?
well if it helps i get a lot of emails that say "he loves me one day and the next day he tells me he hates me"..the good news is..all guy are like that..the bad news..you cant stop it..if he's in a good mood he will tell you he loves you..if hes in a bad mood..you can expect the opposite. best way to handle it..let it slide through..when he calls you..just say im busy can i call you back..it will save you from getting hurt and him from saying something he will regret..hope i helped! x0Lallyp0p
karyn.. wow i need your help like reelii bad!! i love this kid soOoOoOo much!! like i dont kno why he just makes me sOooOo happy and hes knows like how to make me laugh smile jeez its maddness!! i love him very much n he used to love me but now he doesnt feel the same way and it hurts me soOooo bad.. like i say im over him but im not at all.. it sux... i reelii need help... n we just went out n then like 4 days later he tells me he doesnt like me ne more.. n like weve went out b4 like 4 times i think.. n i cant let go of the moments we've shared i love him.. i reelii love him... i think.. i need some help kayrn please help me!!
there's a good chance that you guys will go out again..since you have already gone out 4 times..but jeez oh man i know what you're going through..n yeah i was *obsessed* with this kid chucky..n we both liked each other..but one day he just got over me and it hurt me so bad..i cried and couldn;t get my mind off of him..i got over him by hanging out with my girlfriends and meeting other guys. Talking to your guy friends will help you too!Just tell people you trust how you feel..it will help you so much to let it all out..But the best way to handle this is to keep busy! Hang out with friends as much time as possible as well as your family! Stay active! Hope I helped! keep me updated sweetie! I love y0o! xOLallyp0p
**~Ok.. I like this one kid.. he asked a girl out.. but i dont no if she said yes or no because i asked him what she said and he said i dont wanna talk about the wench.. but then i think thats a No but like i wanna go out with him but i wanna do more things with him.............................................................**~im 14 i wanna get more closer to this kid like have sex with him but sometimes i get scared because im afread someing will happend~** what should i do
well obviously he said no to the other girl..if he called her a wench..but i wouldn't go out with this guy juzt because you want to have sex with him..get closer to him by like knowing him better..not by having sex with him..
heres sometying to think about:
-what if y0o get pregnant? can you face your friends and parents?
-what if you get AIDS..those plans you've had since you were in kindergarten saying im going to get married and have lots of kids are completely out of the question..your screwed for life..and can never have sex again. what if you fall in love with a guy who wants to have kids..well that means you're out of luck.. just think about it. your only 14..i know you can get that urge but theres more disadvantages in sex than advantages..
x0Lallyp0p Hope I helped
hey karyn yeah i do go to your school umm i have a question i really dont know what to do i am bi and i made out with girls but thats all i have done with girls and i dont know if i should keep it a secret or i can really let my feelings out ... what should ido? and i love sex i cant stop doing stuff with guys what can i do to kinda help make me stop a little bit? thanks luv ya im 14
hmm..i dont think your bi..i think that its just the spur of the moment and you happen to be with a girl..if you were bi you would be doing way more stuff with girls than just make out..but i honestly would not let that get out! especially if you go to my school..you know how much drama goes around in r damn school..you could ruin your rep if you let that get around..keep it on the down low..
alright about the sex thing..idk heres something to think about to maybe get you to stop..ok what if you happen to get pregnant? what would you do? what would you tell your friends your parents? would you get grounded? ok now what if you got AIDS..you're screwed fer life now..what if you get any other kind of diseases that won't allow you to ever have sex again..guess what that means plans for gettin married and having kids are out..
those are just some situations to think about..if you were ever in those positions..maybe it will help you to stop..you're young..and you won't be much longer..so take advantage of bein 14..hope I helped babe! x0Lallyp0p
theres this girl i like but im not going out with her yet and this other girl i like but just wanta do stuff with her is that bad wut should i do
yeah..it is bad to just want to do stuff with this other girl..cuz you're using her. how do you think she will feel if she found out you were using her? Well just figure out who you like more and why..like who has the better qualitites..but don't be a playa..x0Lallyp0p Hope I helped!
what if u like 3 girls and maby 2 of them like you but u like the thrid girl the most
well maybe the third one doesn't know you like her! You should talk to her about it! write a note! say.. hey do you have any feelings for me..cuz i got some for you and i just want to know if i have a chance! and the worst thing you can do to a girl is to go out with her and still like somebody else..Hope I helped babez!! x0Lallyp0p
the other day i was with my girlfriend and it was just me and her...we were all alone and i tried to go down on her and she said that if i did she would kill me! what should i do? should i dump her or beat the hell out of her? PS you are hott and im thinking that me and my girlfriend arent gonna last so i was wondering if i could go down on you?
your girlfriend obviously doesnt like when your down on her..you shouldn't dump her just because of that..and i dont even know who this is..so why would i say that you can go down on me?? x0Lallyp0p
how big is the average weiner? is 6 inches small?
6.16 is the avergae size for a teenage boy.. (I just looked it up online lol)
Karyn.. im lost.. i luv this guy.. and we went out for like 4 weeks and then one day he was like.. "i luv u!" and then the next day he was like.. "Idont wannah tlk to u" and hung up.. he doesnt like me and now he likes my best friend..i was like WTF and now i dont wannah luv him but i luved him so dearly b4 that now i cant get over him.. i feel like a tard.. wut should i do?!?!? im so lost and upset! thanks luv ya!
hmm...maybe you should just be friends..sounds like he has mixed emotions..talk to him about be like one day you love me and then the next you dont want to talk to me?? whats up with this? its hard to get over someone you like..but just try talking to him! hope I helped! x0Lallyp0p
...ok i fell in love with this boy over the summer and i still really love him but he moved....and everyone always makes a big deal of me getting new b/f's ......i mean me n him are still really good friends ........but everyone always says i dont love him or else i wouldnt have other b/f's but the truth is i still really do like him but we're ONLY friends so i cant jsut stop dating ahh what should i do i miss him so much.
hmm..long distance relationships are hard..my friend went out with a guy for over a year on and off..and it just so happens they ended up cheating on each other a few times..i would definitely try to avoid long distance relationships..go out with other guys..stay friends and keep in touch with this boy that you met over the summer..but i would try nothing more than to be friends with him! x0Lallyp0p
okay well theres this guy and me n him were really good friends and we liked each other but i never addmited it and he asked me out a couple times and i said no because i didnt want a boyfriend at the time... now im pretty sure he got over me and he likes this other girl named jessica and a couple weeks ago i just told him i always liked him i know i said it to late though n he likes jessica so how do i get him back ? what should i do HELP!
Wow! This happened to me,except it was reversed.Me and this boy liked each other, but he didn't want a girlfriend. He liked me a lot but he also didn't want to go out with me cuz he liked a few other girls too. So I got over him because I felt like I was wasting my time. So, he got mad when he found out that I was completely over him and that now I like someone else. Now for him he blew his chance. So I don't know if he would give you a chance because he waited for you,and you didn't say yes..but I think you should defitiely talk to him. Explain to him that you've liked him the whole time but just were'nt ready for a boyfriend. If he doesn't want you as a girlfriend..than don't be sad..because friendship is so much more important than a relationship. Besides there are a lot of guys out there! Just take a l0ok! Hope I helped! x0Lallyp0p
there is this girl i like and i dunno if she still likes me but wut can i do to make u still like me
theres nothing you can do to make a girl still like you..a girl will like you for you..i would talk to her about it..ask her who she likes!maybe she just wants to be friends.. g0od Luck! x0Lallyp0p* Hope I helped!
Okay this is really bad...i think im startin to have a crush on my best friend. He is just so nice and perfect..what should i do?
its okay to like your best friend..but just remember if you guys did ever go out when you break up..your friendship will most likly not be the same..you will hav to spend so much time rebuilding it..then having fun with it..ask him if he's ever thought of you as a girlfriend or if he ever will..see what happens from there..!! x0Lallyp0p* hope I helped!
ok theres this one kid that likes me.. and i like him.. but then theres my ex boyfriend he still loves me and i like him still.. and everytime someone else lieks me or i like someone else he gets all mad.. and i dunno why cuz were not going out or anything and it bothers me cuz this kid is my ex-boyfriends friend and there on the same basketball team and now he hates him.. so what should i do..i tryed tellin him that i cant controll who i like .. and he still wont listen to me.. i need help i dont know what to do.. should i just not like anyone or go for a different guy?
your right..you cant help who you like..and noone should get mad at you for it..someimes when someone really likes you..they get mad because they dont have a chance anymore..because you dont like them..its funny this same thing happened to me yesterday..i got over someone who i liked so much..and he liked me 2 but he just didnt want a girlfriend..so he got pretty mad that i didnt like him anymore..so i know what your going through..all i can tell you is to like who you want and not who everyone wants you to like..you like a person because they have that special something..that maybe someone else didn't have..i would forget about your ex boyfriend..he's a jerk to be mad at you for that..well i hope i helped!! x0Lallyp0p* Keep me updated!
Karyn hey i need help with somethin i like this kid but he doesnt like me i tell him i like him but he still doesnt understand how much i like him i liked him for about 2 years now and i dont no what to do please help
guys are differnt than girls..girls are more sensitive and care more than guys do..sorry but thats how it goes..I know what your going through..because i liked this kid chucky for the whole begining of the school year..and he liked me to..but hes was one of those guys that didn't want a girlfriend..so i figured i was wasting my time so i held myself back and eventually stopped liking him. All I can tell you is to maybe get over him. There are a lot of guys out there..its hard i know..but get out more..find some new guys!If hes not going to give you a chance, don't be hurting yourself over it! Let me know! x0Lallyp0p* Hope I helped!
Yes Karyn i have this one friend she like has this problem w/ getting a boy she likes over the friend position and idk how to help her what are some ways i can help her and yeah i just need some advice to give to her to get a boy to like her more than a friend???
well.. a guy should like a girl for her personality not the way she looks but..maybe you guys can get together and just give her a make over..try and do her hair really cute and different! ( scrunching it, crimping it )maybe try new make up! eyeliner on top really brings out the eyes..lip liner..just try differnt colors and differnt types of make up! make sure shes not allgeric to anything tohe b4 you try this..you dont want her to break out! lol Hope I helped! x0Lallyp0p
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months and we always have a good time when we are together and he does the littlest things that are so sweet and at times he just can really gett on my nerves.. hes constantly going to this girls house named whittney. but i guess he also plays ditch and then goes there. and these 2 girls were over at his house a couple days and ago and i dont remember very much but i think he said something about them hangin in his room.. but i dont know it was jus him n them in the house and all the sudden hes breakin out street lights and gettin the cops called on him for goin on pplz property late at night and makin loud noises wen playin ditch the hole ditch thing doesnt bother me but he is eggin houses and stuff but wen i did ask him if he was doin that just to b cool and try n fit in with other ppl.. but he jus sed he hadda go.. last night i asked if people say he flirts with others and he says people do say he does flirt but he doesnt know he's flirting.. so do i trust him? and alot of people say they dont know how me and him have held on so long.. my brothers are constantly telling me that.. its hard to let go of a long relationship and you may no that
wow..7 months..thats something to be proud of..lol well i dont know if you can trust him..it sounds like no..because when you confronted him about the situation he just said that he had to go..and a real boyfriend would not do that..heres the problem..in a good relationship the 2 people involved must be able to communicate with each other..if one isn't communicating then its not going to work..i think you should just tell him that you want a break and that you need some time..you guys can always go out in the future..and there are so many other guys out there!! Just take a look! Get me updated! kay? n tell me what you decide! Hope I helped! x0Lallyp0p
ok thsi si how it gose im going out with some one that i like alot but it not like were i like her in hte begining b/c like when i started ot go out iwht ehr she was the most inportant thing ever but now it is like ya kool and everthing and she been mad at me adn everthing and me and her been fighting for like ever and idono but it realy gay and and i also like this one gurl but not alot but i still love my g/f more and stuff and i dont no what to do b/c me and my g/f been like fighting and shit and it seems like me and her like dont talk and shit enymore so ya what should i do b/c im confewas wiht my life and i dont no what way to go so plezzzzz help me also she mad at me my g/f is help
well..im sorry that you dont have the spark with yer g/f anymore.. there are 3 things already wrong in yer relationship..1)sparks aren't flying anymore..when your truly with someone you love..sparks fly at every moment that your with them 2)you guys are fighting..which means you don't trust each other..3) you like another girl..even if you like her only a little bit..you still like..
do you get what im saying? lol i think either this..you talk to yer g/f about it and see if you can figure something out and how to get along more..or you should stop seeing each for a little so you can miss each other..n go back out in a couple of weeks.. well just think about! hope I helped! x0Lallyp0p
ok listen i am goin gout w/ this one kid adn i think he likes me too much and i dont kno wat to do?? should i brake up w/ him, should i tel him.. i dunno wat to do i mean i really really like him but it seems like he wants more from me then i can give. well pleaza help me..
yeah..y0o definitely need to talk 2 him! Tell him y0o feel uncomfortable..n heres the thing: if he gets mad at y0o.. and doesn't accept what yer tellin him then dump his ass! lol cuz y0o should be able to talk to your boy friend n tell him how y0o feel without him gettin mad..hope I helped!! x0Lallyp0p
ok karyn, umm why do you hate it when i say i heart somone! i mean you know who i'm talking about buy why do you laugh when i say i heart??? it is a little bit less than love but more than like! get it? luv ya ~~~me~~~
ah ha candice!! lol cusz iytt sounds funny!!!i heart candice fer life..or i love candice fer life..lol now i just dont y0o like y0o..i love y0o! lol so its i love y0o candice!!! ah hahaha!! x0Lallyp0p