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My name is Amy, I'm 16, I moved to North Carolina from Vermont and it's wonderful here, I love the weather.. but, I do miss Vermont and everyone there. * I'm into sports, guys, tanning, sometimes shopping. I like listening to music - pretty much any kind. - and, I'm willing to TRY and help anyone with any prblems they need advice on.
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One of my good friends is dating this guy, Erik, that I liked for 2 years, but she never new it. And so they been dating for 7 months, and Ive been a bit down latly. He just recently broken up with her, And he said he did it cause he wanted to go out with me cause he heard I liked him. But I don't wanna hurt my friend, beacause she's really down, and crying and all. I feel really bad, but on the other hand I really wanna go out with him. What should I do?
~Amberlynn
I think that you should wait it out before you make any big decisions about dating this guy. Most likely, your friend really needs you right now and friends are more important than any boyfriend. Once your friend has had some time to get over this guy and she has met new guys.. step in and say that you've had strong feelings about this guy and if she doesn't mind, go for it. Goodluck, I hope I helped. xo.
I am a 39 year old woman who has been seeing the same man sexually for almost 2 years. What we have is very special. We both admit that. We have made an agrement with each other not to sleep with anyone else except each other. My problem is that I want more out of this relationship. And because it has been sexual, I can't tell if he wants the same. In the past when I asked for a committment, he said he couldn't at that time, because he has goals he needs work towards and needs to focus on them. Even though he said he would like to the timing was off. I am feeling like it will always be sexual, nothing more. Can I be wrong? Should I wait it out? I do have very strong feelings for this man.
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I think that you should talk to him about having more in the relationship and if he isn't interested in you for anything other than sexual acts than you should move on. You can do better whether you want to or not and you can have an intimate relationship and so much more with someone that would care for you in other ways. You're 39, find someone that will love you in everway possible. I wish you the best of luck with this man you feel so strongly about, but, if all he wants with you is sexual favors and nothing more, I doubt he's the one.