well i got this idea from courtney weycamp, but the main reason i made this is because ive been through ALOT of things in my life- and i wanna help other people anything from guys/girls to family i dont care just tell me and i'll try to give you the best advice!
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hey- ok i have a huge struggle right now.. so im going out with this guy and he is absolutely amazing.. its just kinda wierd because we were best friends and then one thing led to another.. and i really like him and i like going out with him.. but moves way too fast.. like he already wants to do big stuff if you catch my drift.. and i don't really want to yet.. we've only been dating for a little while.. how do i handle this without hurting the relationship? (link)
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well ok if your relationship is strong enough and he lieks you as much as he says he does then you should be able to talk to him about it and he needs to understand and respect that..because "communication is key to a healthy relationship" haha
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hey bailey! ok, so my boyfriend's birthday is coming up in december, and i have no idea what to get him! we've only been going out for a little over a month, and i want to get him something that means something, but i don't want it to be too overwhelming. ya know? if you could give me a few ideas that'd be great! you've helped me out with a few other things before and you're great at giving advise! thanks so much!! (link)
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aw thankk ya! alright well a cute idea would be a picture of you two in a frame and like a letter or card because it isnt too much but shows him that you care or get him like adidas moves cologne because it smells like SO good and it isnt that expensive i dont think..i hope i helped!=)
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ok...so i really like this guy, i have liked him on and off since 7th grade!!! and our friends don't hang out with each other and really the only time we talk is when we have class together...i don't know what to do, should i move on? (link)
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nope, you should try to hangout with him over the weeknds and stuff and especially with winter around the corner you guys can go ice skating and stuff and just really get to know him!!=)
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Im making a list for my boyfriend for christmas..
100 reasons why i love you
can you help me get a few? (link)
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haha umm be like because your always tehre for me..idk really because i dont nkow your relationship with him
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Hey!! ok so theres this guy right? hes a junior and i think he is so damn hot!( im a sophmore) and i dont know him at all but i really want to find a way to get to know him because i want him! But i dont have any classes with him at all but sometimes he is where i am but we never like talk? So how do i let him know that i am intrested but at the same time i want to get to know him? And its kind of wierd because not a lot of girls like him or think hes hot? so help me! how do i make it show but not show too much that i am like desperate! (link)
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alright haha well im kinda on the same boat as you aree sorta kinda..yeah but ok you should be yourself around him and like, talk to him on the phone at school at lunch after school, like and hang out with him and stuff..and i think he'll probably get that your interested, like and if you can sense theres something then go for itt! haha and it shouldnt matter really what other people think about him because like what you see in him is what you should base him off of..and just like im him or whatever or smile at him in the halls..kinda slow hints haha to show him your interestedd!
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o bae u answering that gave me and orgasim (link)
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haha cool
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Hey hunny, yeah i love you but you don't know who this is..so yeah. ok so i need your help.
i'm a huge flirt! and i love it, but i also end up hurting a lot of people, guys and my friends. and i switch on and off of guys so offen. i don't have set emotions, they change too offen. like i went to homecoming with this guy i had a thing for. but then i hooked up with a different guy like the week after and before that. then i hooked up with the guy i went to homecoming with, and just this week i hooked up with another guy. i know i sound like a whore, but the thing it..i like them all. like when i'm with one of them i like them more than the other..ugh! i just don't know what i should do. i don't want to be thought of as a whore. and i don't want to end up leading anyone on or hurting anyone. PLease help.. (link)
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alright well seriously, i think its really good that you recognize that you dont want to hurt anyone, thats like mature of you. But what you need to do is although you like both guys, spend time around each guy and whoever you like yourself around more i think you should stick with..im sorry this like isnt a lot but i have to gooo right now so i hope i helped!:)
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my dick is 10 inches long is that normal cause im like 4-11 and i think its kinda weird (link)
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wtf
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awwwwwwwww bailey i found out the news today and its ok to cry about it. Im definatlly here for you if you wanna talk about it and i went through the same thing so i know how to help! (link)
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what
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ok so i like this girl at my school (east). and i wanted to know if she likes me too??
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okay well i sorta need to know who the girl is first but umm just like flirt with ehr and see what she does back i guess!
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so this guy has like me since last winter and i've liked him on and off an we're good friends and we've hooked up before. but recently it went farther then making out and my other friend recently also started likeing him. a couple weeks later i told her what happened and she completely wrote me off and won't even talk to me what should i do? (link)
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hmm well talk to your friend and let her know detail by detail ,like make sure she understands because she doesnt really ahve that big of a reason to be mad at you specifically because you havent done anything to offend her, but jsut talk to her
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what should i do if i find a red cherry penis sucker in the bathroom drawer a stripper outfit of my moms in her underwear drawer porn pictures of my mom on my computer and a dildo under the bed!
PLEASE HELP! (link)
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BECCA DIE HAHAH YOU HOEEEE wow you know how i feeel about that:):) good times
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ok me and me girlfriend decided to wait and say i love you when we actually mean it and i said it tonight and she didnt say anything back...is this a good or bad sign??
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thats reallly sweet..well maybe the girl was kind of taken by surprise so dont take it personally now, but if it really starts to bother you then you should confront her and dont be timid or scared, because its a really reasonable question
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Hey bae, okay so last night at homecoming i danced with this junior like a lot (im a freshman) and i like i just met him last night and i don't know that much about him but i felt this like connection. should i try to see him again of just accept that it was a great night and move on? (link)
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hmm okay well if you felt a connection then there might be something there-just sorta play around with it..that sounded weird but like expirament see if you like him and hangout with him and stuff i hope i helped!:)
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ok...well i am freshman and last night after homecoming at teh after party i had sex with my date and i didnt take the pill and he didnt wear a condom and im scared im gonna get pregnant and im one of the girls who ppl look up 2 so i dont wanna get pregnant wut should i do?? (link)
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umm dont be a dumbass and wear a condom..?
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No i ment im in ur grade and im a guy and im the one who said im we should hang out very soon! (link)
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okay cool! who IS this though
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wow that girl is not me and i do ihav blue eyes bae and if u dont know who i am im gonna be hurt and lost in the desert is so retared. Im in 1 of our classes and i ate lunch wit u?? (link)
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i seriously dont knowwww
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k actually im in ur grade and im a guy (link)
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haha cool..
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ok so i like this kid from my church but i dont c him a lot!! but when i do my heart races like crazy! i dont know if he likes me back and it's really hard cuz i c him like evry sunday and thats it...what should i do? (link)
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try to like hangout with him outside of school, like go to a movie or something and really get to know who he is!:)
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No u dont love her! I love her more then any guy does in the entire world and bailey and we should defintily hang! (link)
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haha alright..? because i know who this is and all
:)
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