My name is Uria. I am 27 years old. I have 4 kids. I have practically raised myself since I was 9. I have lived as if I were an adult my whole life and I know a lot about life so if you have a question, any question feel free to ask because I'm here to help. If I need advice I would ask too. After all,no one knows everything!!!
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Basically, I have trust issues. Because of past relationships where I got cheated on, because of betrayal of friends most close to me. Situations which have happened more than once have led me to believe that most people are full of sh*t.
Now i'm with one guy, who I love a lot.
But I find it hard to trust him.... actually, it's not only him, it's my friends also. I feel like they're all lying to me about small things. I never let them know though, or bring it up.
It's just in my head, I think, "yeah, ok, you're full of sh*t"... and it starts to bother me. a lot.
But just like everything else. I keep it inside.
I feel like if I bring it up, everyone is going to tell me that im blowing it out of proportion, or that i'm being a jealous girlfriend. And I don't want them to see me that way, because all it does is cause unnecessary conflict because of my paronoia.
Any advice on how to get over this?
Or just advice on the whole situation. (link)
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You and I are in the same situation, girlfriend. You are not in anyway being paranoid, you're just being cautious. Stay that way so that if you ever find out that they are all indeed full of shit, youre feelings and emotions will not be damaged because you were prepared for it. You are also doing the right thing by keeping your business to yourself. Never let the left hand know what the right one is doing!!!
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