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This past week I went to a camp and my ex-bf was there also. And over the course of the week I realized that I still liked him. He had already told me about 3 weeks ago that he wanted to get back together with me, but I turned him down because I was still upset with him for dumping me in the first place.
Anyways, now I've told him how I feel and we've decided to get back together. But tonight he was texting me and talking about starting back right where we left off, and suggesting sex too. I told him right then he was moving too fast, but he pulled the whole "you do love me don't you?" to which i said, "i did once until you broke my heart. I'm not just giving it back to you so you can do what you want with it. If you don't want a serious relationship and you just want to mess around then I don't want anything to do with you anymore."
After awhile he texted back saying "I do want a serious relationship. I was just messin' with you. That was just once." Would you say that he truly meant that or just said it cuz he was scared I would leave?
Also, what are some ways we can help to make our relationship exciting but not always so sexual? I want this to work out because I really like him but I want to make sure it is a healthy relationship.
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well im not sure how he meant it but i think to make oyur relationship better just talk about whats on your mind and let him know how you felt in the past and how you feel now.to make things not as sexual i think you should let him answer why he should be the one to get into your pants and dont let him say "because you love me or i love you"tell him you want something meaningful
~unhappychik~
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