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okay me and my boyfriend made 5months this monday, and its been pretty qood, like monday he and i was happy that it's been 5months and at the end of the day at school monday he was like "5months baby" and all over me, but our relationship is kinda weird, like i love him and he loves me, but there's days where our love is strong and there's days our love isn't strong and i kinda hate it, because it hurts mee alot, like i dont know what to do, i try to be all over him, but no pushy thouqh, but its whatever too him. And when we have days like these i hate it, and it really hurts me, can you hellp please because i have no idea what to do. (link)
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i'll try to help as best i can.
have you tried asking him if on these days, if there's anything on his mind? maybe he's stressed out, or maybe something else, that's making him seem distant.
maybe the same thing could go for you. have you ever been so busy, stressed, etc. that you seem to focus more on your problem than him?
that happens to me sometimes, too. it's perfectly normal. good luck!
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hey everyone, i'd really appreciate your time and input, i'll keep it short :)
there's this sweet guy i've known for about a year now, he's not like other guys i've seen: he's a great listener, very observant, humble, and kind to everyone.
we've known each other for about a year now, and have the same group of friends, didn't know him that well then. but recently he's opened up a little. i've noticed he laughs a lot at my jokes, moreso than other people do, (and they're not all that funny). it could just be that he's nice. but just recently he started to touch my arm, gesture to me, get my attn. over little things and mentions my name a lot(i'm excluding some tidbits to shorten this). a lot of girls are attracted to him, and he's known our groups of friends(who are mostly girls) longer than he's known me, so i'm wondering what this new comfortableness means. and i just found out that he's going to europe and at the end of the trip he's going to spend 3 days in paris w/a girl from school who'll be there too(but she apparently has a bf). i don't know this girl, but my friend says he doesn't poke her or anything, but then who feels comfortable enough to go hang out w/a girl he's known only for 3 months in a diff. country?have i misinterpreted these signs, does he like her instead, and me as just a friend? please help!!! thank you! (link)
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okay, well, it sounds likes he likes you.
that's almost how it was with my boyfriend and me, actually. i had no clue he even liked me, because girls were all over him.
but since you're doubting that he does, tell him how you feel and ask him if he feels the same way, (that's what i had done) and if it's a "yes i feel the same way about you," type thing, ask him out! it sounds like you guys are good friends, and chances are you won't break up really quick, so when he goes to europe, you'll bne on his mind even more, and he'll be in the "i can't wait to see her and hang out again" mood. haha, i have a bad habit of making up scenarios (sp?) with such little information.
anyways, i wish you the best of luck!
hope i helped. (:
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one of my friends, j, is the best thing ever. i need to get him, and i need to get him fast. he seems to be more attatched to my two other friends, a and m, who are fresh/cool, and thin/sporty, respectively. (link)
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well, you always could just go up to him and ask him out, but if that's too outgoing for you personally, just make it a point to go up and talk to him a lot, being flirt. give him hints, strong hints. just not too overpowering! he might be creeped out by that. ha ha. good luck!
hope i helped. :]
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So I only told one person. I told my best friend Beth about how I like my sister's boyfriend's brother, Jesse, and she told someone who told someone who told someone else, blah blah blah... You know how it goes.
Now the entire school knows it. All of junior high, all the freshmen, sophmores, seniors... Everyone. People I have never heard of know it. Even Jesse knows it. I'm so embarrassed, but I'm sorta glad it happened because I know that I never would have found the guts to tell him I like him.
He's a grade ahead of me. He's in 8th grade. I'm only a sevy that no one knows. But I see him all the time.
Anyway, I keep catching him looking at me now, and then he looks away when I look at him. And then once in the hallway switching classes for first period, Beth and I passed him.
I looked down at my feet sort of pretending like I had no idea he was there, but Beth saw him and she told me later that he turned around, saw me, and just froze and stared at me then walked off once we passed.
Then we got to first period, sat down and Beth said "I think he likes you!" Then I said "Yeah, more like he thinks I'm a freak."
Am I just being paranoid or do you think Beth may have been right? (link)
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ok, well pretty much the same thing happened to me.
honestly, it made everything much better for me. the guy i liked started talk to me more and we grew closer and what not.
anyways, my point to this is: don't worry about it. if he really does like you, who knows? he might ask you out. only a year's difference isn't bad at all.
and if he really does think you're a freak, let him go! he obviously is a jerk and you don't need him.
hope this helped. :]
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how would you know if a guy likes you??
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ok. in my opinion there's a few ways to start to tell.
1)what the person who answered this before me said: non-stop flirting.
2)you keep notice him staring at you
or 3)he'll start to compliment you.
just a few things i've noticed myself. :]
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