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Hey ya'll. My name is Candace..but most people call me Candy. I live in Dallas..but am going to UCLA in the fall :)! Now..some of the advice I give may seem harsh, but believe me, its just exaclty what most of you need to hear. Oh. And another thing..I am completely open to you guys sending me questions personally, but the stupid ones have to stop. I will no longer answer back to the ones bitching me around! Okay..thank!

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well about 2 wks ago, i started dating a guy who is 19, ( im 16)lets call him... jeff. anyway, hes very sweet, and would give me the world if i wanted it. you could basically say hes my "prince charming" that i always dreamed of, well until a couple days ago. i met this guy from my friend...lets call him... andrew. ok so andrew, is also very sweet, and i've been talking to him on the phone lately, i refuse to see him, because i kind of do have feels for him, but im not sure if i want things to happen. and my friend told me that andrew likes me too. sooo.... the only reason im hesitating, is i really do like, jeff. but jeff gets pretty annoying at times, and hes... im not sure... he tends to make things, all about himself. and andrew wants to know what i think, everything. the weird thing is, i can talk to andrew about things i dont talk to my bf, jeff about. im not sure if i should move on, and go with andrew, or stay with jeff. another thing is, jeff's friend, is sick... (cancer)and hes really nice *(staying a friend, only think of him as that)* but, i know if i break things off with jeff, i'll regret it because of his friend, and i know i'll lose his friend if i do break things off. sooo what should i do?

girl...your heart decides who it likes and you cant change that. if you're really fallin for andrew then TELL HIM!! tell jeff that you want to stay friends with him but you just dont like him like a bf anymore..he should understand. hope i helped!
~Candace

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okay i dont know whats wrong with me!! i love this guy but i dont no what to do! he doesnt have the same feelings for me! gosh i wish he did! i miss him like oh my god ! i love him more than i love myself! but im scared to go out with anyone else because it just makes me think of him more and because i dont want to get hurt! but when ever im with this guy i feel like im in heaven and im not scard at all because i can be my self with him! i mean he knows all my secrets i tell him everything because i know i can trust him! but i just dont no what to do i mean he has like no feelings for me! i asked him and i think he didnt wanna tell me because he didnt wanna hurt me!! but im hurt even more now! gosh im going crazy just thinkin bout him!! i miss him every minute of everyday! i love him more than this world and if someone took him away from me i would die! he is everything i ever wanted i mean the first time i saw him in 5th grade it was love at first sight!! i thought i was in heaven he like swept me off my feet and that kiss we had oh my god! it was so magical what else can i say then HE took my breath away!! i love him soo much!! well there isnt any point in it because thats his feelings and i cant do nothin to change them sooo...... i dont know what to do!! gosh i've never felt this way bout anyone!!! what do i do to get him to like me???? i love him soo much!!

woah girl, sounds like your in love. my advice is to maybe lay off him for a few days. stop talking to him and see how he reacts, ya know. he might have the same feelings - but maybe hes just not ready to share them. guys like to be completely sure of themselves. so if he starts talking to you like he misses you - then there you have it! *he might like ya back!* but if he doesnt - then he might think you have more of a brother/sister relationship than a boyfriend/girlfriend one. if you're still unsure of his feelings and are STILL head-over-heels for him..then send him this website on the down-low. say "i've been sending this to everyone and it really gives you an idea of who you are" or whatevs. website = http://soulesschild.hiveports.com/love.html

ok i really hope i helped!

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