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mii boiifriend is turning 13 and i met him on 4th of july and his birthdaii is on july 26th... ((but)) i have no ideal what to get him.. i dont really kno what he wants cuz everytime i as he says he wants me for his birthdaii... ((*aww*)) soo does aniione have anii really good ideals... i'LL rate you!
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I got a little help on this one, from my guy friend, and he said cologne, or a thing from an inside joke, so everytime he saw it, he would think of you. I think maybe a picture of you two might do the trick. Let me know how it goes! Good luck, and hope I helped!


okay, this is kinda confusing. i really like this guy named asa. he's really hot and really nice, and i think he likes me too. but someone else who i like (jesse) asked me out, and i don't know what to do! people at school have been thinking that we;ve been going out for a while, but we're just good friends! should i ask asa out, or accept jesse? i don't like jesse as much, but still, i don't want to get rejected! (link)
helen, quit it!!!! NOW!! I'm trying to help people and your stupidity is not helping. Quit it. (By the way, go with Jesse cuz he's HOT!!)



well i like this kid nd he likes me nd wen i talk to him he sometimes tells me to tell people im his cuzin nd shit - he dose have a girl but i dont no her ?! y u think he sayin to tell people that ?! PLEASE HELP !! (link)
Maybe he doesn't want people to think he's cheating on his girlfriend. If he likes you, you don't have long to wait until he dumps his girlfriend and asks you out. Then he'll get his payback, when people start asking him, why is he going out with his cousin?


I have a crush on a guy that's I've known for 3 years. he is on year older than me and his younger sister, who is one year younger than me, is my best friend. I've had a crush on him for more than 4 years and we used to like each other, but not to the point of dating. She's told me that she THINKS he likes me too but we're not really sure. My mom and his mom are REAL good friends, but my mom is the boss and their mom is an employee, and according to my mom she doesn't want us to date or be anything more than friends because she's afraid if anythign will happen, it will ruin their relationship. My 3 questions are--How do I drop hints to let him know I still really like him? How do I know or get him to show that he likes me too? (because at times he can be a real bi0tch.) and how do i show my mom that if anything happens we'll stay friends? (i've already tried talking to her about it...) thx (link)
You've been watching for signs. You're ready to tell him you like him. How do you do it? Well, some people write letters, but you don't always know that his eyes will be the only eyes that see it. Maybe they will. Probably not. Most people get a friend to tell. This has it's advantages. If your feelings aren't mutual, you don't have to melt into a puddle of embarresment at his feet. But if you like a guy, shouldn't you be able to tell him yourself?

10 GOOD WAYS TO TELL HIM:
1) sit behind him on the bus, and strike up a conversation
2) offer him the extra ticket you have to the concert
3) put your towel next to his at the pool
4) go to his games, or ask if he'd like to come to yours
5) ask him to dance at the school dance
6) call him up and ask him if he and his friends want to go with you and your friends to the play
7) ask him and his friends to join you and your friends in a game of basketball at recess
8) tell him how much you liked that report he did, and ask if he wants to work on the next one together
9) make plans to go to DQ after school, and invite him to come along
10) challenge him to a rubber-ducky ringtoss and the school carnival.

But where, you may ask, are the words "I like you"? NOWHERE. You don't need a big declaration to let a boy know how you feel. It'll be perfectly clear because of your friendliness. If he's interested, he'll take you up on your offers. If he's not, he won't. Either way, you'll have your answer.

Sit down and talk with your mom. Tell her you'll always put your friendships first, and assure if anything happens to you two as a couple, you will always remain friends.

Good luck!


whats that song on the titanic that i think her name is rose sings or w/e and i think it goes "wherever you are...." or something (link)
"My Heart Will Go On", by Celine Dion


*im real far away from home right now, and i had a boyfriend before i came to this state, then we got in a fight and he dumped me, i REALLY love him still, but he keeps hurrting me over and over again? should i let this time be the last?
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I know this isn't what you want to hear, but let him go. It hurts when strong feelings can't be returned, but move on to other things. Get to know other guys, and throw yourself into what you love (other than this guy). Eventually, he will become a speck in your past, and you'll be happier for it.


theres is this kid that asked me out 6 times and i say no everytime .and its really annoying and he does it everyday nd when i say no hes asks my best friend wtf is tha matter he cant be alone for a few months .. but what if he asked me agen what do i say to him ? (link)
Instead of just turning him down, tell him why you don't want to go out with him. Be truthful, and tell him to please stop pestering you. If this continues, you can go to a trusted adult figure, or an older sibling. This could qualify as harrasment, and it's illegal.


okay well hey everybody..i have a girlfriend and she's the same age as me..14..and i dont see her a lot because its the summer..i really really miss her..i really think i love her but i was just wondering what a good place to take her out would be..like on a date or something

-S~W~A~N- (link)
Being a girl, here are my top 4 places to go on dates:
1) movies (oldfashioned but fun if you can find something suitable, a feat in itself these days)
2) dinner (cheapo places are great if you're not Mr. Moneybags, and it's class that counts)
3) amusement park (not exactly romantic, but a great place for an all day date)
4) dinner/movie combo (the classic)

Good luck!


well i like this one guy and i think he like me! we talk all the time like on the internet and phone. i asked him one day on the internet if he likes me and didnt answer and signed off! does that mean he and is probebly to shy to answer or he doesnt like me??? (link)
I've had something like this happen to me a couple of times. It could be that his computer kicked him off, or something. More likely, he got scared at the sudden mention of interest in you. He may be too shy to tell you online, when you could forward his answer to so many people. Instead, bring up the subject again when you are talking to him IN PERSON, and ask him again. It's more private, he can't avoid the question, and you'll probably get a more honest answer.




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