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mmm, I play volleyball for my HS, I play soccer for my HS, I umm, used to swim, but not anymore. and thats a bad picture.
but ok
yeah im done.

Gender: Female
Location: Pennnnnsylvania
Occupation: psh. who works? lol
Age: 15
AIM: Brandnew366
Member Since: July 2, 2005
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Last Update: July 7, 2005
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I recently broke up with my boyfriend who is 16(I'm 14), because he didn't want a relationship and I did. All he wants is friends with bennefits. I told him I wasn't going to do that with him, and he said that was ok. He asked if we could hang out today, just hang out. so I said yeah, and I told myself that I wasn't going to do anything with him and then he came over, and the next thing I know, im straddling him (fully clothed) and making out with him. It got carried away and I ended up giving him a hand job. He thinks it was just friends with bennefits and I'm a piece of ass. I don't want that, and I want to know if I should just cut off all relations with him and stop talking to him, I dont need him as a friend. or a boyfriend. what do I do!? (link)
I would stop talking to him, so you don't have to worry about screwing up by going to far with him, and him telling people what happened.


my soon to be boyfriend goes too far sometimes. he comes over to hang out a lot and we cuddle and everything but sometimes his hands wander and i want him to stop. it's really uncomfortable for me and i want him to stop but i don't wanna seem like a prude. i've tried moving around to get him to move his hands but i don't know, there's just something weird about it. my past two boyfriends have been really verbally abusive and my last boyfriend hit me a lot right before we broke up and after we broke up and i still don't trust guys and i don't know if i should continue hanging out with this new guy. i know he really cares about me and has for a while. he took a lot of crap from me before we started hanging out. i lead him on and broke his heart when i hooked up with a different guy. HELP. i'm a girl btw. (link)
... whether or not you hurt him in the past. you have to let him know how you feel. doing something with him cas he wants you to is wrong. ive been there and done that. and i felt guilty about it fo such a long time. it was horrible.
tell him how you feel. no matter how embarassing


Okay... my old friend constantly had boyfriends but I know I am prettier than her...and people have told me that but I can't seem to get a boyfriend. All the guys just want to have sex but not be in a relationship with me. I am 17 and have never been in a relationship. I know I can get a boyfriend but they all want to just have sex. Is there something wrong with me? (link)
No, There is most definently nothing wrong with you. My friend was the same way, only she figured out that most of the guys she was dating were just dating her for sex. Lots of guys are like that, you just have to find the right one...
dont get discouraged. you'll find him




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