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female. 23. united kingdom. taken ♥

often told i'm a good listener & give out good advice....shame i don't listen to it myself sometimes!
i have an open mind & try to stay level headed.
mature & have a wise head.
and i love solving problems & being able to help people, so send some questions my way :)!

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So there is this guy who I am very good friends with (he is a few years older than me) I have known him for a year now and he is confusing me so much! Before this happened i had an idea he might like me but I'm not sure any more. Ok so i was at this event awhile back and he kept touching me (in an appropriate way) like he kept holding my hand, wrapping an arm around me, hugging me etc. Like very touchy. I was totally ok with it though :). and he even kissed my head and was leaning on me and walking VERY close to me. So then i've been seeing him at a school camp thing and (He is VERY shy but comfortable with me i guess :D) and he's was more shy around me and awkward. and I am now the one who has to go up to him (except when i got back from a trip i was gone five days and he came up to me and hugged me and told me he was glad i was back.) and he's way more shy around me than usual... the thing is though (we text everyday)we kind of flirt when we text ( we are both shy) and i was at a football game and i was waiting to be picked up and he walked over to me and hugged me while i was on the ground and said he'll see me when school starts. so... What is up with him>?? He's acting all flirty and touching me and then he's super super shy.... What?? Please help, Thank you!!

shyness is the classic sign of someone liking you & all the signs add up.
maybe suggest you two hang out together on your own & see how it goes? he may come out of his shell a bit more if you get to know each other properly :)

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I broke up with my girlfriend and she still loves me, but I don't have any feelings for her and I met someone else who I'm very happy with. I need some good songs to tell my ex that I'm done with her, please help!

just tell her that you enjoyed the time together but you've moved on, but would still like to remain friends?
does she know about the other girl yet? how long as it been since you guys broke up?

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