ah i know what you meen. my friend was going through this, actually. the thing is, a relationship takes two people. it's hard & all i know because he "loves you so much," & you dont feel that same spark. if you dont like being in this relationship, or if you dont like him, you should probably get out of it. if he gets mad at you for telling him how you feel..then its not worth waiting. you shouldnt stay in it really. of course you could give it some time, theres no probablem with giving things time. just dont give it too long or you'll be sucked in again. as for the thing about stopping him from the "want & want" thing..the truth is you cant change someone. but you can talk to him about it. but like i said, if he doesnt listen than it isnt worth it. i understand you'd still want him as your boyfriend..but if you dont feel much for him, then i dont understand why you would. i hope i helped love.
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