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Q: Okay...Like i have been going out with my boyfriend for about 4 months & i just get the feeling of not liking him or liking him...it just he loves me soooo much its like hes attached to me he wont like get off & let me have some room you know but i told him that & he kind got mad at me & he never ever wants me to break up with him but i have a feeling that i have to sometime...i have been there for him alot i have helped him billion times & stuff. but if i lose him he will be lost in his world & i dont want him to be lost.But iam saying is i really love him & all but there is just somethings arent right like hes constantly want & want from me you know how can i stop that...?? i still want to have him as my boyfriend..i need some tips.. thanks

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-Lauren
ah i know what you meen. my friend was going through this, actually. the thing is, a relationship takes two people. it's hard & all i know because he "loves you so much," & you dont feel that same spark. if you dont like being in this relationship, or if you dont like him, you should probably get out of it. if he gets mad at you for telling him how you feel..then its not worth waiting. you shouldnt stay in it really. of course you could give it some time, theres no probablem with giving things time. just dont give it too long or you'll be sucked in again. as for the thing about stopping him from the "want & want" thing..the truth is you cant change someone. but you can talk to him about it. but like i said, if he doesnt listen than it isnt worth it. i understand you'd still want him as your boyfriend..but if you dont feel much for him, then i dont understand why you would. i hope i helped love.

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