Friends. Family. Other people who I dont know
I have posted this coulmn in order to give fantastic individuls like yourself a chance to ask me (ally sullivan) questions that you wanna know.
Feel free to ask anything at all.
Speak up. I'm all ears :)
Gender: Female
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
AIM: Smile4Ally
Yahoo: lillyboo2@yahoo.com
Member Since: November 24, 2004
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Last Update: December 8, 2004
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i reaalllly like this one guy. and he knows it. and today he gave me this website to look at something, and at the bottom he put his sn and was like "dont loose that" and then he wrote his sn n the website on my hand and said "just in case u loose the paper"
do u think he only wrote that website for an excuse to write his sn??? and does that mean he wants to tlk to me more than just in class now? bc thats only when i tlk to him. tell me what i should tlk about!! and by the way, hes taken. so was that a friendly way to give me his sn?? thnx! (link)
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He totally had the whole thing planned! I think hes intrested in you, guys are often intrested in more then one girl at a time. He wont be with his girl firend permenently, thats for sure, I think the you should talk about things like music, or what you like to do for fun. Music is my favorite, everyone likes music, and if you guys like the same kinds you will have alot to talk about.
I wish you luck!
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Hi Ally. You don't know me much..I'm Sam's friend from NY. Anyway this thing is really cool and here is my question----> I never thought about my close friend Ethan as more than a friend until all our friends starting saying how great we'd be together..and now I like him. We've got good chemistry and they're all schemeing behind my back to set us up (without my persmission btw lol)but I'm not sure what to do. He's a bit of a flirty guy in general so telling if he likes me or not is hard. And if he does like me...is it worth risking our friendship? (link)
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Wow, I cant tell you how many times that has happened to me, chaces are if ya'll date and things work out then your friendship will stay good. As long as you make sure to end on a good note, I mean if one of you dumps the other, it might be sorta weird. Its a really tough call, if you think that the you two would break up really fast and things would be ruined, then maybe you shouldnt ( I guess thats obvious) but if you are still friends with alot of ur ex's then I think you will probably be good to go, becuaseif you and him were really good friends I think that you will be able to over come a break up.
Go for it girl! Much luck!
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This girl I live next to, who I am incredibly attracted to, refuses to date anyone. She feels the risk isn't worth the reward. Its driving me crazy because all I do is think about her. Do I just give up and move on? Do I try to change her mind? What do I do?
~Thinking of You~ (link)
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Well, thats a tough question...in that stituation I guess I would just have to follow my heart...Not that I have one, but if I did, I would deffinetly let it determine what I was going to do.
I wish I could be more of a help
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okay ally so i have this ex...and we didnt go out for very long last year but i still liked him ALOT when we broke up....well i had just convinced my friends that he had changed and he hurt me again...he thinks i hate him bc all of my friends hate him for hurting me....i like him so much but he wont talk to me...what do i do i wanna get back together with him so bad...at the most random times he pops into my head and i miss him that much more.....
.x.o.HeArT bRoKeN bAbii.o.x. (link)
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You really need to talk to this guy about how you feel, It sounds like you really really want to be with him, and anyone who you want to be with you deserve to be with. Good freidns will always be slightly sceptical of who you date, but in time if you him, then your friends will like him too. They should be happy when you are. You should really tell him how you feel, I know it will be hard, and you probably dont want to do it, but take a deep breath. You dont have anything to lose, and speaking your mind is NEVER wrong.
Much love, good luck!
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ok...well heres my problem, im going out with this guy from your school and im still in love with my ex-b/f...my b/f and my ex are now friends which is kinda odd but me and my b/f keep getting in fights that are in relation to my ex...i sometimes find myself lying to my b/f and missing my ex...i still talk to my ex and were really close, ive known him for 2 years and we are like best friends...i could tell him anything, well my b/f doesnt like that too much and i REALLY dont wanna loose him but i still in love with my ex...i recently found myself hurting them both SO much and i dont know what to do...it seems like everytime i turn around im screwing over both relationships. The whole thing started when my ex cheated on me with my ex-best friend...so i was gonna get back at him with my ex ((my b/f mow)) but it ended up that i am now going out with him...im so confused on what to do...pLeAsE HeLp Me!?!
-LoSt AnD bRoKeN- (link)
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Well, If at any point you are in a realtionship that you dont want to be in..that realtionship is over already. A good way to find out if your in the right realtionship is to think really hard about it (and in the the words of Brigit Jones) if you can think of 3 good reasons why you shouldnt date one of theses guys, then you shouldnt date them. I know thats its hard to be in relationships as it is, your bound to be slighly confused from time to time, and wonder what it would be like if you were with someone else. But remember you cant have your cake and eat it too. You will have to pick, and as hard as that will be it will make you a strong person.
Picking will prevent the screwing over of the relationships, and hopefully the guys will respect you discion if not..they werent worth your time to begin with.
You can do it :)
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Hey Ally whats up, anyways
I like this girl a lot one of your friends acually
she likes talking to me and we talk almost everyday but then she got a boyfriend, and i hit my head against the wall that day
we still talk and stuff but she really likes this new guys and i dont know what to do
at least i know, and hopefully she knows that i'm willing to stick around
Thanks
~The Unlucky Guy (link)
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Well, my friends are all awsome people. I'm sure if she knew that you liked her things would be diffrent. I know that my friend wont be with her boyfriend forever...and since you and her seem to be close, I think that she would love to date you.
Dont give up.
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Ok wel there is this guy i really like and he has this really ugly gf but he is like in love with her and not me and i like him so freaken much! what should i do
-confussed- (link)
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Dear confussed,
its always really hard when a guy you like has a girlfriend already. But remember that he wont be dating her forever...especially if shes that ugly, I would like to say that she has OTHER redeeming qualities, but to be perfectly honest, I dont know. Keep your chin up. Try to make yourself a little less avaliable, guys always want what they cant have.
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