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Hey everyone!
Well, I'm 17 and I'm a senior in high school. I'm athletic, but also a band geek. :)
I'm very open minded... I myself am a lesbian, but I have lots of both gay, and straight friends.
I just want to help people, that's why I started the advice column. So ask away! =)

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How do I get over a boy who was my first love & ripped my heart out by text & on aim he yelled at me & said WE R OVER finished byby!? I just cant get over it. And the weird thing is is that i wanted to break up with him weeks ago but, i couldnt find the heart & then he shocks me & said " listen there's no easy way of saying this but i want to break up with u" thats low. HOWW? & the worst part is is that he is going to summer camp with me. He also told me he loves me still but yet broke up with me. I NEED SERIOUS HELP! Our anniversey is 4-22-08 ( i know its short but we liked eachother for 2 years ) anyways every where i look the number 22 is there i just cant get over him & i am loosing precious beauty sleep over this. (: I dont know why i still love him. I hate that i love him. Some days i just sit on the couch listening to Me & his song eating cookie dough crying. i am being a female dog to my family cus of this. I had a dream that he was my first kiss too. i just cant!!!

Breakups are terrible.
I think what makes it really tough is the confusing things, like the fact that he says he loves you, but still broke up with you. I know, it keeps playing over and over in your head, and you just try to understand.
The best thing, is to try to move on. I know it's easier said than done, but if you keep trying to get back with him, it's just gonna feel worse.
Join a club or team, and meet new people. Do things to keep your mind off of him, and find other reasons to be happy.
Plus, any guy that breaks up with you on AIM or by text, is NOT worth it! =)

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