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well first off my name is Dashae. I am 15 years old I was born in the UK lived there until I was 8 then I moved to California. Right now I am in texas and I am loving it..lol I am know around town for my unique way of talking...i am very good at giving advice and I love it toooooo...so dont be shy and ask me anything...at all I will answer them no matter what...:+)
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Location: UK and California
Age: 15
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15/m i'm in high school and i want to know what girls like in a guy. like what kind of traits, and also, how do i start a conversation with a girl i like. please help! :) (link)
At this age most girls want the cool quiet mystery guy. Thats what I always went for. I mean just be yourself. I know I know everyone says that, but honestly do. Dont put youself to much out there though


My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. We were best friends all during high school, and thouht maybe we should give it a shot & got together. well the begining of the relationship was amazing. he made me feel like i was the only girl in the world who could ever feel like this, until one day he got so mad he hit me. not in the face or where it would show. It was on my thiegh. I tried to look past it, but he just kept hitting me. It started out only when he got mad & we were arguing, but then it started to be an everyday thing. if i was "driving wrong" he would hit me, or i "said something stupid" he would hit me. then he stopped cause my family found out. but, he started again a few months later. i always ask him why he feels like he needs to hit me, why cant he jus express his anger to me in a different way. I want to know what to do. Im so lost. I love him so much, & i know that this relationship could work, i jus dont know what to say to him. Please,, i need some help. (link)
My Best advice is to LEAVE get out now.
But if your not going to listen to that then i advice you to threaten him with a cop call or something. Let him know that you love him but if he is going to continue to hit you that you are going to report HIM. Also hit him back let him know how it feels. Or threaten to leave him let him know that you love him but you can leave anytime if he continues to hit you. DO NOT LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU WANT TO STAY WITH HIM NO MATTER WHAT. Because this will only make him think that no matter what he does that you will stay with him. again I SUGGEST YOU GET OUT NOW. THIS IS NOT LOVE IF SOMEONE IS HITTING YOU. STAND UP FOR YOURSELF BE A STRONG WOMAN. I PERSONALLY WILL BE DANMED IF A MAN EVER PUT HIS HANDS ON ME. I WOULD RATHER DIE TRYING TO KICK HIS ASS THEN LET HIM JUST BEAT ME. BUT IM ONLY 15!:0 GOOD LOOK AND AGIAN IF ANYTHING GETS OUT OF HAND..CALL 911 AS SOON AS POSSIBLE MY FRIENDS MOTHER DIED BECAUSE HER DAD!BE CAREFUL


Ok I really really REALLY want an emo boyfriend but how do I get them 2 notice me, I'm already emo but its just I don't know how 2 talk 2 one and they don't come 2 me so how do I get them 2 come 2 me if I'm alreadly emo (link)
blah blah blah those other two answers...I know what you want..you want an emo boyfriend cause well they're effin hot I know i wanted one for a while..and just for the other people who answered this question emo mean emotional you dont have to cut yourself to be emo...so my opinion is if you have a myspace or something just find emo guys on there and just start talking to them like Im really bored so I thought I chat with you for a while since you on line then get there number start texting meet up somewhere with somefriends meet some of his friends and there you have it emos lineing up for you...hope i helped
15/f


What are some signs that a guy really likes you, for you, and not just what you have? (link)
he looks in you in your eyes...doent care what you were and...well isnt always checking you out or trying to grab you he really wants to know you for you and...it should just come naturaly




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