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im confused on something..im a 16 alomost 17 female and i had a dream bout my ex bf(aaron) friend harry and ever since that dream ive kinda liked him but the thing is ive never talked to him before and my friend christin talks to his other friend stef...but i think christin is pullin my chain bout me gettin harrys sn..im so confused...o and is it normal to like someone that u never even talked to before?
~*Tracy*~
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yeah, it's definitley normal to like someone you have never talked to before.. i have. lol, dreams never really make sense.. but if you do like him, maybe you should actually talk to him. just a suggestion and sorry for taking awhile to answer!
XoxXoxo cay xxoXoxoXO


hi...im 16 yrs old and my ex bf(Aaron) hes 17 we got into a big fight one day about girl thats 15 she was supposed to be a 'friend' she kept trin to get with him so here me and aaron are gettin into it i said somethings that i now regert i have been tring to get ahold of him in all to tell him that i miss him and want him back....but he got his number changed(i think) no one knows where he is everybody i talk to tell me he has a new gf but i dont know...What should i do...should i just wait and see what happens or just try to get ahold of him and tell him how i feel?...please help (link)
i would wait awhile, then call him. maybe he just doesn't want to be bothered or else he would have given you his number. definitley give him awhile and then try to get ahold of him and let him now how you feel!


is there anyway you could go by his house?


Okay well heres the thing...I have a crush on this boy..and one night before i realized i had a crush on him me him my friend sabrina and michael were all hangin out in my house partyin...well he was reall drunk and he would like touch my ass as he was walkin by or lay on me and hold my hand and juss different stuff and at the end of the night we were sittin there n everybody was outside and he went to kiss me and i moved away because i knew he was drunk and i didnt want him to do it because i was scared he was juss doin it cuz he was drunk well the next day we acted like completely different like we didnt talk at all and we didnt bring it up and we still havent and his cousin said that that night he came home and he was tellin him all about me and that he likes me alot but im not sure whether to beleive him or not and i dont kno whether to try to get with him and ask him out because what if he was juss drunk and thats y he was doin it and if he says no it will make things awkward between us ya kno?? what should i do im real confused ??? (link)
alot of guys, even girls act like that after they have drank alot. if he was acting totally different the next day then i would say don't try to "get with him" because he was probably just acting that way because of the alcohol. i would talk to him and ask him if he liked anyone to see if he ACTUALLY likes you. but from what you said about him acting completely different then i doubt he does. GOOD LUck! Xo Cay


I feel so weird, tryna talk to someone i dont even know, but it's come down to it. I firgured it was wortha shot to ask. Okay mean this guy have been dating and everything has been sooo great but fact is we just all the sudden started arguin abou tthe littlest stuff i mean we have never argued before and now all the sudden we are. Im scared i love him alot but what does this mean? ..
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it means that you're getting, well i guess you could say you're getting closer and you're probably around each other alot. maybe you two should not always be around each other. ALL couples argue, if they didn't it would be pretty strange.. two different ppl have different opinions. hope you two work it out! much love
xoCay


I feel really alone and wish i could find Mr Right,my mom says if i have one good boyfriend then Im good, But how will I know where Mr Right is
(Im 15/Female)
PLz If u know whats best answer this Question
Jenipher HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
well, you're pretty young right now.. so don't worry about it! he'll come around eventually, you have awhile to break a bunch of guys hearts..lol. live life the way you want and let mr. right find you! hope i helped. Xo Cay


I am a 13 year old girl, and my friend invited me to a party. She just said it was a plain old party, so I went. Some people that I'd seen before, but didn't know exactly were there, just playing like you're supposed to at a party. My friend, and a few other people that I knew, were all making out in another room. I left immediatly.

Now my friend is having another party. I don't know what to expect. I asked who she was inviting, and she told me, and I know everyone who she invited. She told me that, again, it would be a fun, plain old regular party. Can I trust her on this, or should I just not risk the chance of being stuck at a make-out party again? (link)
i think you should go for it and if it ends up being that way where you aren't comfortable at the party then LEAVE! after the second time, if it ends up being the same way then let her know that you aren't into that kind of thing. Xo Cay


ok i went out with this guy lets say his name is bob...so bob and i were really good friends (and we both have the same friends) but when he asked me out i said yea so then the next day my friend lets say bobby is just rushing our relationship like in the morning he told him to put his arm around me (i was ok with that) then at lunch he wanted me to hold his hand (FYI: My hands are really dry so i said no)then he told me to tell bob that i wanted to spend the rest of my life with him!! ( i didnt tell him that) so then the next day i broke up with bob. even though i still like him!! so he broke up with his gf and i dont knko if i should go back out with him. should i?!?! thanx!! (link)
since you still like him, i would say go back out with him. let him know that you don't want to rush things between you two, take it slow since you were friends at first. also, let your friend "bobby" know that you don't want him to be involved with your relationship! if ya need anymore help w/it..ask! XoXo Cay XoXo
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I have a bunch of friends who miraculously happen to be boys. Seriously, a lot. None of them consider me their girlfriend, and I don't consider any of them my boyfriends. We're all just plain old friends.

I also have a lot of girls who are my just plain old friends. They are consistantly telling me that one of them HAS to be my boyfriend, and that it's just not right to have a bunch of guys for friends at the late age of 14 (sarcasim). I mean, sure I love them all like friends, but I don't consider any of them my boyfriends. Is this wrong??? (link)
if you don't want to be more than just friends with them then NOTHING at all is wrong with this! lol, i have ALOT more guy friends than i do girls, i don't know why.. but i do! i definitley don't consider them "b/f's" either.


i started goin out with this guy- and it was only 2 days.. and on the 3rd day i broke up with him for somebody else.. but he had told me he loved me n' all this stuff and when i broke up with him i told him he seemed too attached.. do you think he seemed to attached already or he was just saying that? (link)
he probably was just saying that because you liked someone else and he wanted to be with you. just my opinion, lol.


i am trying to get my guy friend to notice me, i always hang around him and hold his hand. i try to let him know that i am into him as more than just a friend, but it feels like everytime i try to get close to him he pushes me away. i have kissed him before and he acts like he wants me, but then it seems like he doesnt. i am confused on how to get him to want me as more than just the friend that i have always been to him.. if anyone could give me some advice on what to do that would be great! hopefully, a guy and a girl could answer this just so i get both sides of it. thx. (link)
I have had a situation like this before. The guy ended up being in LOVE w/me. haha, it was crazy! You should definitley let him know that you do like him as more than a friend, that way he won't break your heart w/o him knowing he did.. if that makes sense? Ignore him for awhile, he'll eventually start wanting you! XxOoXOo Cay XoxOxoO




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