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Hey! I would love to answer your questions! I have been searching advicenators for many problems in the past and have found that most answers have helped. Hope i can help with your questions. =)
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Hello, I am 16, and i am so sick of my life i really am. So far i ahve llost alot of my close friends,well what i thought was my best friends. They all left because well im not sure really.But have you ever just wanted to give up? yeh thats what i want to do really.give up. not sure what to do anymore. this life that everyone is talkinga about,this great life,is nothing but a lie.
hey, first of all, since you are 16, this means that you have a whole lot of life and friendmaking ahead of you. think about it this way- if you arent happy with the friends you have had in highschool, you are moving on to such bigger and better things. college! a job!, these are things that highschool merely prepares you for. you can judge life by certain incedents that happen in these years because you just have to know that better things ARE coming.
I know how you feel, i am 17 and recently did a lot of reassessing when it came to the people who i thought were my friends, but all im thinking about now is how exciting the next step of my life will be. When you are down, just think forward.
if you wanna talk more, inbox me and ill give you my sn.
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I rele like this guy and I think he likes me back. He is a junior and I'm a freshman. And we both want to hang out with each other. But we aren't that "close" we rele just want to hang out and get to know each other. Have any ideas or fun things to do? Something tht we can do, just hang out, etc. but i need suggestions, because we still need to get to know each other more.
Help please.
even though you might see this as mean he probably just made other plans and didnt want to break them off since it sounds like you guys are best friends anyways. some good ways you could get to know eachther are through public things like hanging out with groups of friends. after a while you can continue to hang out with groups or just alone. i dont think you should be offended by him "ditching" you though and just show him you are still interested in hanging out and hopefully things will turn out for the best!!
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i like this guy...and im pretty sure he likes me (keyword: PRETTY sure..so not 100%) i dont know how to ask him if he likes me because its just really akward, i cant ask his friends because 1)i hardly know them, 2)they are like 99% always with him, 3) his friends would be like WTF!! and i cant get my friends to talk to him because i am sooo sure he would say no..even it it is a yes. i cant ask him myself..because that would be really akward since we get along good as friends right now, so how do i figure out?? like ,is there any signs? or something? ANY advice would be so much appreciated!
Thanks:)
if you want to tell him that you are sort of interested in him then you could casually bring it up over aim or even in person. you could be talking about another person liking someone else.. then say .. well do you like anyone? and if he says another person then whatever, but if he says i dunno or if he says.. sort of or something like that and then asks you who you like just be like.. well i have a few people in mind but you are one of them. or something like that. i would advise doing this because once a guy knows a girl likes them they are more apt to think of this girl and like her if they dont already. i hope i helped!!
My boyfriend is not coming home right after work but he calls me and stuff and recently he hasnt been coming over. I feel like my heart is tearing apart but I cant leave him because I love him to much. His attitude has changed a lot and its like i am alone. Someone help me i want to be loved. Do you think something is up? Oh by the way his ex is back in town.
the best thing to do in this situation is talk to him. if you assume he is cheating and accuse him of it with no actual proof, this will show him you have little trust in him and make matters worse. if you dont want to full on confront him, try asking him where he was in a curious way. not an angry way. Ask him what he did or how his day was. if he is trying to keep something from you ask about it. there is no easy way to talk to a partner about cheating but if you do it calmly and dont get angry or accuse him, it will work out best. i hope i helped and i hope all is well for you both!
ok i like this guy
who I've known all year.
we've been talking a lot lately.
ok so he's having a pool party...
and I dunno if I should tell him I like him
because I'm usually good at reading people
and it seems like he's interested.
i wanna do something at this pool party with him?
i dunno.
ideas?
If you want to make a move on him "physically" you could always just give him a little peck kiss. Since its nicer to have the guy make the first move you wouldnt want to totally hook up with him. (atleast thats my opinion) but my friend was at the pool of a guy that she liked. She didnt know if he liked her or not but she had an idea that he did. So she is sitting on the edge of the pool with him and says "You know what i really want to do?" and he says "what" and she just said "Close your eyes" and kissed him! then before he opened his eyes she jumped in the pool. He ended up jumping in to and kissing her back (only this time it was a french kiss) =) just try something like that! If you dont want to be too straight forward then just be like.. .do you like anyone? and see what he says. If he asks you back just be like... mm i kind of like you =).
I hope you have a great time! Keep me updated!
okay so...i recently told the boy i REALLY like that i liked him. we hardly talk..but we know eachother and we both have the same friends. i know..get to know him first. lately, ive been seeing him look at me..either look at me or check me out[my friends also say it too] when i either pass by or he passes by. does he like me or is he considering it?
If i were you i might talk to him and either tell him or hint to him that you like him. Sometimes letting a guy know you like him will make him realize if he has any feelings for you. It seems like he already likes you though.