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Hey, I always give advice to my friends.. But this is cool because now they can ask me without me knowing who they are ya know! Well I think I am good at it but lets try.. need help? Just ask me

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I really like this guy (im 15/f) like i think it might be love.. but he has a girlfriend.. me n him always chill n like make out n stuff.. and he always tells me he loves me.. but why is he with her?

well i dont wanna bring all your hopes down but it sounds like.. If hes gonna cheat on his gf with you like that... Dont you think that if you two started going out.. hes gonna do it to you hun?.. Once a cheater always gonna be a cheater..

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any tips of what to do not to do or what to watch out for with having a boyfriend?
THANKS!!

there's alot of things, such as cheating, lying being a sneak, being late.. But some guys are not like that =).. Uhm.. getting flowers get used to that! all you have to do is not be clingy and itll be good for ya

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god all i want is a guy who whould give me a scn to talk dirty to mine is ---well ill tell u if u answer me

God into a chatroom! You will find hornball guys in there!

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i have a boyfirned but we never see each other but meanwhile we love each other is this ok

As long as you're happy with him and not too sad about not seeing him. Then It's perfectly fine hun =) (Dont forget to rate me)

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ok theres this boy i dated for about 8 months then we stopped talking for 2 years thne we started talking again and and then he tells me he likes me and cares about me then goes and gets a g/f and stops talking to me and tells my bestfriend that he doesnt want to talk to me what do u think i should do

Girl, I think you should just move on. he sounds worthless anyways and plus guys are a dime a dozen dont ya know =P hehe. So really just say screw him and move on. Find yourself someone who actually cares and will love you! -goodluck (Dont forget to rate me)

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I am 18 years old and ive never had a serious boyfriend...Yea i can get along with guys fine like talk to them and hang out alot..but they always go for my friends or dont have any other interest in me than just being friends..What is my problem?

Well hun, Maybe you just havent foud the right kinda guy that wants a serious relationship with you. Or your guys friends just think of you as one of the guys! Try a different aproach of things and see what happens, Or just wait until that time is right, Dont worry about being 18 and never have had a serious boyfriend, it gives you more options ;) -Goodluck

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what does s.o.s mean cuz people go i love s.o.s

S.O.S means Some One Special - hope I helped

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what does metro-sexual mean?

guys that look and that act gay but arent! Like they worry about their hair more then a girl does, about their clothes and how they look. More or less a stuck up guy =)

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Hey girl we are really good friends you have been there for me a lot. but I really need your help with this one. The other night I was talking to my friend on the phone and he makes me the happiest person in the world. When we were talking I told him how I felt about him and he didnt say anything. I dont know if I should of told him how I felt about him yet because he just broke up with his girlfriend but I was there for him. Hes the one that always comes to me when he needs someone to talk to but now that he dont have a girlfriend anymore its making me like him even more and want to spend a lot of time with him but I just dont know what I should do. Should I just let him be by himself, just be there as his best friend that he can talk to him about anything, or ask him out and see what he says? There is another thing that makes we wonder about him. He's 18 and I am 16..going to be 17 in 2 days..but should I be worried that hes going to try something with me when I dont want him to? But there is one good thing and that is my parents love him to death and they have never loved someone that I have liked before so its just weird and I dont know what to do about anything. Thanks for helping me hun..

Well, i know who this is. I never have forogtten your birthday. Happy early birthday babe!
I dont know if this will help but I will try to help you as much as I can because I love you and I am here for you =).. What I think you should do, since he did just break it off with his girlfriend, is just give him a little time to really get over her. In the mean time, All you can really do is be there for him through whatever it is he needs help with. Seems to me like he should be liking you already because i know how you are and you deserve only the best! =) for real though you do! No, I dont think you should ask him out just yet. I think this one might just take alittle more time ya know! It's very cool that your parents love him. But while you're giving him time, You should talk to him. Just say something about the both of you ya know maybe getting a chance to go out! Another thing you have said, Don't worry too much about him trying anything with you that you dont want to do babe, Seems to me that hes a great guy and a best friend that you could ever have.. I think he would respect your decision on anything you have to say and do! Im really not sure what else could or should happen with you both. But let me know how it turns out! -best of luck to you sweetheart

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Okay I love My boyfriend and all and we've been dating a lonng time, almost a year, but then when I get around another cute guy I want to flirt with him, but I don't because yea I'm with my boyfriend, but I mean is that bad?

Well girl, Here is my answer to this problem. I think that if a girl has a boyfriend and has the erge to flirt with someone else then maybe this girl doesnt really lvoe her boyfriend ya know! Where are the sparks?!? So yes it is a bad thing but then on the other hand, Maybe its not.. Do you feel like you have changed your feelings about him? because if so then you really need to let him know.. and tell him that you like to flirt with other guys.. -Goodluck

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when ur making out with a guy do you stick ur toung in his mouth or shuold he do it to you first?

Doesnt matter much.. I mean whoever made that move should still be makin it ::wink wink:: jk but seriously.. whatever happens happens. Go with the flow. - good luck

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Okay heres the deal...I really like this guy but i know for a fact that he only thinks of me as a friend kind of a "one of the guys" type of thing. Ive even told him how i feel but he always avoids the subject.He always comes to me asking me advice about his girl issues and i get really jelous when i dont even know who these girls are. How can i get him to see whats right in front of him?

hey babe, let me tell you something. To me this guy seems like.. He just wants to be great and best friends with you. But if he means this much to you.. I think you should jsut give it your all.. really WOW him.. Like dress alittle sexy or.. Put your hair a different way or do your makeup alittle cute ya know.. And another thing. I think you should really just tell him how you feel and if he just keeps being stupid with avoiding you then maybe hes not the right guy you wanna be with ya know? -Good luck.

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alot of people say that kissing a boys ear-lobe will turn him on, but i think thats kinda embarresing, like he'll look at me weird or something...do you think thatll happen?

girl... It does turn guys on but.. Im pretty sure as long as you dont SLOBBER all over his kneck and earlobe, you'll be fine. trust me! you have nothing to worry about -good luck

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Hey, i need help with sumthin. i asked my old gf out and she said not right now cuz it would make this other guy pissed, and then while i was waiting she fell in love with her x again. i still reely love her and i miss her so much. What Should i do?

sounds like u have it bad.. ok so listen up i'd just start to be really good friends with her.. u kno try helping her wit guy problems and when that day comes that they break up u'll be there for her and she will come to you to help her.. and if you guys are really good friends it usually ends up with her liking u.. dont worry your chance will come around! And maybe when she told u this other guy would get pissed.. maybe she wasn't ready to fall in love again or maybe that other guy was her x? who knows! But stick in there.. -Good Luck!

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