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Alright so this might be a weird question but I don't know really where else to ask it... My girlfriend and I aren't what you'd call kinky but if we do get outta the box, there's one thing we probably enjoy the most. She likes being... dominated I think is what you'd say. She's a confident, strong, amazing girl, but in the bedroom she is extremely submissive. Which I'm okay with. She likes being held down, tied up, and loves the naughty schoolgirl/evil teacher thing haha ahhh... But I'm very careful with her, shes pretty tiny so I don't let anything get out of hand, no worries. Yeah anyway so she's been kinda hinting at wanting me to get rough with her, which that, I'm not okay with. Thinking about hurting her turns me off instatntly and I told her that, she gets it completely but I was wondering how can I give her those same feelings? In a different way. Or something we haven't been doing, something new. Just wondering if you guys had any ideas, thanksss a bunch. 19/M (link)
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I'm 18 F and, even though I am not interested in this sort of sexual activity myself, I understand and respect that some people are.
I think you have to sit and talk to her about it, ask her to define what she actually wants. If she wants you to do something with her which is totally not acceptable to you, tell her. You never know, you might be getting the wrong vibe about what she wants you to do.
If she is a decent person, which I have NO doubt that she isn't, she will understand and respect your views and opinions. After all, it's something that you both have to be happy participating in.
I hope this helps.
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