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Hi, I really hope you can help; i've gotten mixed responses from others...
Basically, my BF discovered that in my senior year of college (I graduated last year) I had taken two semesters worth of judo classes and he thought this was really funny b/c I don't look like, I guess, a "typical" jock chick--that is i'm not muscular or buff or whatever...i'm your stereotypical "girly girl" in appearance--tall, skinny, blond hair, blah blah blah and I'm like 125 lbs....so he's laughing at me, calling me "judogirl", etc., and I was fine w/all that, if a little annoyed, but then he made a mistake: he challenged me to a wrestling match...and I beat him.
He outweighs me by like 40 lbs. and is pretty strong but he didn't understand that my judo skills would use his strength against him and he just couldn't believe I won. I figured it was a one-time deal, but he was so bent out of shape that he's challenged me several times since then, and I've defeated him every time. It would be OK if he didn't take it so seriously, but he just becomes this mean pouty jerk when he loses and keeps challenging me and now i've refused to wrestle him b/c it's no fun and I hate his sexist attitude as well. But refusing to wrestle just makes him angrier and he says stuff like "you're just afraid i'll figure out your 'tricks' and win...it's so annoying!
I've considered just faking it and letting him win but I don't REALLY want to do that b/c I'm proud of my skills, and just wish he would be too...plus when he baits me w/all this "you're just a girl" crap, it gets my goat and i'm more than happy to throw him to the floor and pin him when he gets too tired to fight me off...
Have you ever beaten a boy at something athletic--whether martial arts or sports--or know a girl who has? B/c maybe if I can tell him he's not the only one he won't feel so bad... (link)
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well thanks for thinking i'm pretty=)
But no, I have never beaten a guy like that .. haha .. i`m not very athletic ...
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alright well its really late and i been up thinking about one of my ex`s and i really loved him! like not even kidding!!! me and him have always had a thing and i don`t think anyone can change that!!! but now that hes all up on some girl that is not to be mean but, not to pretty. and theres a HUGE rumor going around saying that shes going to be having a baby!!! and its kinda gross. but anyways i have a boyfriend and i really like him and all but its like i always have defferent guys on my mind.... i love to flirt! haha well i don`t know what to do... i`m thinking to hang out with my ex and see how it goes. and just tell my boyfriend that i just wanna clear things up this him, and tell him to turst me. idk is that a good plan? (link)
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I ALWAYS think about one of my exes. :/ I know it's hard to get a new bf to trust you. When I go out with people, I always have other guys on my mind. You've just gotta let your bf accept it. Hope I helped. :/
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Well my newly ex-boyfriend now was dating for 11 months, and just broke up officially two days ago. We had broken up two times before this because we were arguing alot. This time we weren't really arguing, and he ended because he thinks I do too much for him, that we argue alot, and that he was to be single.... we he came to my house today to get his stuff, I was in the closet crying and in his clothes I packed the promise ring he gave me and the dogtag with our names and the day we hooked up..... my sister in law told me she asked him in the hallway what happened and he said he we were fighting too much and that he looked sad too, like he didn't want to do this.... I remember the last time he was breaking up with me, he was crying too... and this time i think he was too... so what should I do... give him time and space, or is he gone for good? I should I talk to him.... I miss him and we're eachothers first true love.... (link)
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Aww I'm sorry! I know the pain of breaking up. Just give him some time, and work on being just friends. Maybe hopefully someday you will get back together, but just wait it out. Hope I helped! :/
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