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I am a smart, straightforward girl. I think the world needs more people like me. Ask me a question and you'll get the no B.S. answer, whether it will hurt your feelings or not. Not that I'm mean; I just have very little patience for delusion and fantasy.
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ok me and this boy went out. before we went it, it took a lot of work to get us together, because i liked someone else aswell, and he had just broken up with his girlfriend from 3 years, but we kissed, and we ended up going out, witch i was really happy for because i really liked him a lot, but he broke up with me a month later. he gave a lot of excuses why we broke up such as he wasnt ready, he didnt want me to get hurt, he didnt want me to do something i regreted stuff lik that. but we worked so hard to go out and we only went out for a month and i think thats stupid. now me and him are friends. we broke up like a week ago, but i dont want to be just his friend. he told me he still had feelings for me and i have feelings for him and i want to go out with him, but im afaird ill make things complicated and i dont want that, how can i bring that up with out making it complicated, i just want to no and i cant keep it inside because i really like him and dont want to be just his friend.. (link)
Get over him. He's just not that into you.


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okay...well i recently found out that im a lesbian...and the other day my friend (shes a girl and didnit kno i was gay) came over. we were working on our homework and then...it happened ...i koodnt control myself...i just jumped on her and we started making out and stuff....we went rlly far if u know what i meen and she said she had a great time but didnt want this to happen again,....i love her sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much and dont know what to do...any advice out there???????????????????? (link)
I was once in the same position as your friend. I can't speak for her, but when my friend, "Sarah," came onto me, I was both flattered and excited by the taboo side of it. Our sexual relationship continued for a while until I realized that I was straight and was only excited by the novelty. I would say that you should talk to your friend honestly about your desires, and definitely don't pressure her if you want to retain your friendship.




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