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Alright, I asked this question before, but I don't think I phrased it exactly right.
This is what I posted:
my guy friend asked me out on v-day and it was really cuet and sweet but i just dont like him that way . so i turned him doen. the day after he didnt bother me, i guess he was embarrassed, but now he wont leave me alone! he keeps talking to me alllll the fucking time, more than he used to before he asked me out, and insists on calling me. he told my friends he like loved everyhing about me. its like im in a reallty bad movie, seriously. i feel smothered by him... like he s stalking me or sumthing. i reaally need some help. i want to tell him to go away but i dont know how without hurting his feelings. tx in advance
But I have to add... the guy, who won't stop talking to me, isn't in any of my classes or my lunch, but out of the 8 times we have to walk in the halls to get to either a class or our locker, he found me 6 times! and mos t of the time i didnt see him til he was inmy face. its really creeepy. stalkerrrish help! (link)
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ok well a friend of mine is kind of going through the same situation. you just need to confront him [which seems like it wont be a problem getting a hold of him considering he is basically stalking you] and tell him straight up, stop bothering me. tell him you just want to be friends and that's that. if he cant accept that you need to just ignore him. there really is no way to do this without hurting him if he likes you that much. but if he does REALLY like you as much as he says he does, he will understand. hope this helps & good luck!!
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ok i like this boy in my class. weve known each other since like.. 7th gradE? and we were just friends then but now we hang out more and flirt and stuff and im scared to tell him i like himmm.. i mean how do i do it! thanks (link)
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well one way you could do it is leave little hints that say you like him. not literally but just do little things for him that no one else may do. or maybe next time you talk to him [or when you feel ready] just tell him that you've been feeling differently about him. the worst thing he could say is that he doesnt like you in that way. hope this helps!!!
-alyssa
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