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I've been with a college guy for almost two months..if you could even call it that. He's been "ignoring" me for a month and he says it's because he's studying for finals. I know this is a complete lie. Well, the first night he talks to me I'm supposed to meet my sugardaddy. I need the money, but whe he was talking to me he said he was "heartbroken" because i sent a guy's nude pic to him. Since i was talking to him again, only for that night, i cancelled on my sgardaddy. Was that a bad choice to make? (link)
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Dump the guy who is ignoring you and continue the relationship with your sugardaddy if you'd like.
You're not being a prostitute like the other person said- I'm talking legally, at least. If you have ANY sort of relationship with a guy that involves something BESIDES sex for money then you are in the clear. That was a court ruling in the 1970s.
To be fair, though, you shouldn't have a sugardaddy and a boyfriend at the same time. Give a guy a break! Sleep with one at a time. And, don't send people you're dating pics of other nude guys. Seriously! Wtf?!
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Basically, how far are you allowed to go?
I'm sure kissing would be allowed, but would kissing with tongue be allowed? What about kisses on body parts such as the neck?
My bf is Catholic and I'm a (not very devout) Christian, and it's just something I was wondering. (link)
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Everyone is going to tell you something different. Really, though, all I've heard is not to fornicate (have sex before marriage). You shouldn't take advice from a super old book where social norms are constantly changing... try trusting yourself and staying within your own boundaries.
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I need advice on how to subtly kick things up a notch in my relationship with a professor. I want to let things evolve naturally, but suddenly I feel like the air between us is just charged. I'm fairly certain that he feels the same way towards me and I know him well enough outside of class to make this judgment. I want to give him clear signals that I'm into him but also want to be subtle - I want him to take the lead and know that he's not overstepping his bounds. What can I do/say that would let him know?
Also, I'm not looking to 'hook up with him' - I want an actual relationship. Please note that there's nothing unethical in this - I won't have him for any more classes and there's no conflict of interests or university policies against it.
Thanks! (link)
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Wowwwww! You're quite bold. You professor could lose his job for this kind of behavior. Why don't you wait until you're not in his class and treat him like a normal person? You know, shoot him an e-mail or something.
One of my professors got in a LOT of trouble for this sort of thing with a grad student...
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I've been dating this guy for a little over two months, we spend quite a bit of time together, and hes asked me to be his girlfriend twice. I wasn't ready then, but right when i was starting to feel like i was, something happened. I wanted to see his phone to look at his texts, because i do this a lot jokingly because most of them are from me anyway. But this time he like hid it from me and deleted all the sent folder, and then gave it to me. and when i looked in the inbox, all these texts were from his ex girlfriend (they dated for two years, and broke up sometime in July). Basically the gist of it was that he had brought me up to her randomly, and so she brought up her boyfriend but my guy got all offended and didn't want to hear about her boyfriend and how perfect he is. So obviously he's not over her..
so my question is, should i keep dating this guy? I like him, but it doesn't seem fair to me. I feel like a rebound.
Please all advice helps! (link)
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Instead of prancing around the issue and just relying on intuition, ask him. Then, next time, don't go through a guy's phone! I know I wouldn't want some guy going through mine...
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