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I'm 16, from the south & pretty outgoing. I love dancing, shopping & taking pictures, music, vintage clothes & jewelry. Here to help! :)

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Alriteee heres my problem... i have a babysitter person that lives wiht me because my parents work long hours and we need soemone to cook clean etc. And he has a gorgeous brother!! when i say gorgeous i mean GOORRGEOUSS!!! But my parents and his paretns dont want us to meet! We have been talkin online and through e-mail lately but thats it. We are planning to hang out this weekend, but his last e-mail he talks about this girl that likes him and he doesn;t know what to do...and asked for my advice!! i dont think he likes her, but idk!! SHould i still meet him this weekend and hang out? Should i get it across to him that i like him even tho we haven;t met yet!?!?! What should i dooo!!???

by the way i am 16 and a female

I think you should hang out with this guy. Since you don't know him all that well, hanging out with him can change your mind on if you like him or not. If you still like him after you guys have hung out then, be upfront about your feelings. He probably has no idea you like him.

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how do you get a guy that usually not too talkative, to start talking to you? im 13/f

simply start talking to him! talk about things that interest the both of you. if you don't know what interests him, ask him. i bet he'll open up & be a real chatterbox. good luck!

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ok theres this boy that i really like and have alot of feelings for. i have know him for a really long time. he was my frst b/f, my first kiss, and i lost my virginity to him also. then he switched school districts and moved, only like a 5 minute car ride.but we didnt really keep in touch. now i see him once in a while when hes in the nieghborhood, he stops by my house, he kisses me, and the last time ihe was here he took down my #, and then asked me if he could come over in 2 days and chill and i said sure, he nevr came over though. i need help do u think this kid likes me back, and should i be mad at him for not showing up when he says and wat should i say to him about this??
sorry its so long

i don't think you are in a position to be able to get mad at him. since you have had your distance, he could be a different person so remember that. if you want to find out if he likes you or not wait awhile maybe a few weeks. if you can't tell by then, be upfront & just ask him about it. invite the boy to come over at a specific time & day & if he doesn't show up at that time, call him, maybe he forgot.

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ok well i really like this one guy. i have known him for about a year now because i just moved the area im living now a year ago but we are like best friends. i really like him and i think he likes me but im not sure and when it comes to guys im really old fashoined (sp?) * i wont call a guy, ask a guy out or anything like that. well what should i do?


oh and about 3 mounths ago i figured out that i liked him because i had just broken up with my old boyfriend which was one of his bestfriends but he took my side on the whole break up because his friend cheated on me any ways does that mean he likes me?

please help!

dazed and confused

don't give up being old fashioned! most girls aren't so good for you! i say if you really want to start dating this guy you have got to treat him like you like him. now, i don't mean make out with the next time you see, just use your words and be cutesy. he should get the picture.

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well ive known this boy for a while and ive never really looked at him as boyfriend status....cuz he my guy. Well lately we've had alot of late night convos goin to 6 in tha morning, and tha more i talk to him.. tha more i like him.. I also found out that he likes me..but im not sure if i want to make that step...but i really do like him tho. Im jus kinda confused and been battling in my mind whether we should date....but he is a great guy.. jus need an opinion for a boost... so if u can, let me kno wat u think....Thanks

i think you should try it. you can always go back to being friends. i can promise you will regret it if you don't at least try. who knows, it could be the best relationship you've ever had.

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