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Okay there is thisg person at school that i have liked for ever..i think "" is the first person i have really liked...wut should i do!?!?

P.s. we usta b really good friends
Help :)

Well, what's really bad about that? It's good you've found someone you truely like! Since you've been friends with him/her before, you should have an easy time talking to them! So try some flirtin' and then let me know if you have any problems!
.*Jane

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Ok, There's this one person that goes to my school, and i really like this person, but i dont know what to do. I really like this person, but i dont know if the have the same feelings for me.

Well first you should get to know him/her better. Don't rush it and as I told someone in a previous question, don't let your feelings for him/her get in the way of your friendship.
If you already are friends with him/her, chances are it would be easy to talk to him/her about it (I'm getting worn out from saying him/her! haha).. I guess for now you should just play it safe and take it slow until you find things out for sure.
.*Jane

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There is this guy, he likes me a lot. [ or so i hear from his best friends ] I have known him for a while and think it would be awkward to go out with him [ boyfriend/girlfriend ] i dont wanna be mean though, because he has never had a real girlfriend and i dont want to be the one to break his heart.
HELP

Well you sound unsure of him.. saying that you "don't wanna be the one to break his heart". Do you plan on doing that? If you don't care about him enough to make it last as long as possible, don't do it. Only tell him "maybe later" if you mean it, otherwise he'll probably keep waiting, which could gett annoying if you don't really care about him.
Good luck!
.*Jane

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OK look, there is this girl, who I really like, and we are becoming better and better friends all the time, when should I maybe pull the trigger or something?

If you think this girl likes you back, go for it! If you're not sure, you could talk to her about it but just make sure she is okay with talking about things like that! Most girls are, but some keep quiet.
So if you think she's too shy to talk about it, just keep trying for a while until you're sure.
Also, girls dont really like to have to ask guys out, it's really sweet when guys do it, and ask her out in person, not online or in a note.

I hope it works out just how you want it!
.*Natalie and Jane*.

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