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I can't get a boyfriend. Well, I can. I get hit on almost every day. But no one seems good enough. And there's no one that I like. I have to resort to making up fake boyfriends just so people won't think I'm a Lesbian. Right now, I'm in high school. So I was just wondering, how important is it to have a boyfriend in high school? Is it better to wait until college to look for someone? Or am I completely weird and is finding the right guy hopeless? (link)
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First of all, not having a boyfriend does not make you a lesbian-- and if you are making up boyfriends, you care too much of what people think. everyone finds someone eventually. you are only in high school; NO RUSH. it may seem that everyone around you has a boyfriend, but you will find that most girls don't get boyfriends until college or even until they have started up their careers. everyone is different. just go at what pace feels comfortable. and you shouldn't be looking for a boyfriend. you should be looking for a boy. fall in love with a person, not an idea.
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So I'm going to be a junior this year.
I really am lonely. I like who I am,
I'm comfortable with myself to an extent, I mean I think I'm a pretty decent girl. But I've never had a boyfriend, I try flirting with boys. I dont know what I'm doing wrong, should I focus on school more, and then focus on boys?
Its just one of my biggest fears is being alone forever, I just guess I need reassurance on that I wont be. But it does seem evveryone around me has a boyfriend, so I dont know what I keep doing wrong :( (link)
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you shouldn't be wanting a boyfriend, you should be wanting a boy. what i mean is, don't fall in a love with an idea, fall in love with someone. when you find yourself extremely attracted to a guy, work on it. become his close friend. make an effort. never give up. eventually tell him you like him. if he rejects you, move on, but never give up. there is someone for everyone out there. :)
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Okay my boyfriend is in 8th grade & im in ninth so we never see each other & all his 8th grade friends hate me with a passion (there girls). when i try to talk to him after school i feel like we are so distant! like he notices me & talks to me but it doesnt last long at all & i never see him as it is. confronting this with him made it a little better but its still going on like he doesnt understand ! how can i fix the distance thing. (link)
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if he doesn't give you enough respect to find a time to be together, he's not worth your time. but you can try talking again with him, and let him know exactly how you feel, especially about his other eighth grade friends--how you feel threatened by them. if he is your boyfriend, you should be able to feel comfortable with his friends (at the LEAST)if not good friends with them as well. make an effort to call him on weekends to see ig he weants to go places, beach, movies, even just watching a movie at your house...and if it's awkward, then invite some of your friends too (guys & girls) or tell him to bring along a friend. (preferrably guy. idk. just what i think.
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