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Well i am a student at Parma City High School, yeah i am a guy but i am really good at giving advice for girls as well as guys so just ask me a question and i'll give you an answer. i like helping people so if i give u advice, i want some feedback on how it worked
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Okay so I'm a 14 yr old female. Sometimes I let my emotions get the best of me in certain situations. (like going WAY too far with a guy) currently i've kissed 45 guys, have given 2 oral, and have had sex with 3. People go around calling me a whore and a slut all the time but I don't see it that way. I also think that I'm starting to have feelings for someone I used to like before. The problem is that I've also done stuff with his best friend. What should I do? Should I bother to waste my time? I really care about him alot but I'm afraid that he'll look at my sexual history (with his friend especially) and expect alot from me. Also what can I do to stop people from spreading rumors around about me at school? It's gotten so bad that people go into the girls bathroom to catch up on my love life! Please help me!
-Confused about my boundaries
I think a whale should go swimming with cement shoes
ive kindda got a problem that can no one can find the answer to but me, but how is what i want to kno. i met a guy last year whom i fell for the momment i saw him. he had a rep that was pretty bad (ex havin sex w/ every gurl) but i want to be a virgin til im married. when he met me i told him straight up how i am. somehow he understood and we talked off and on for about 9 months and went on 2 dates b4 he asked me out we've been going out for almost 6 months now and have finally told eachother that we love oneanother. weve never had sex and still our relationship is great, at 6 months hes gonna ask me to marry him but i'm only 16 and hes 21 i dont want to be tied down even tho i do love him but at the same time i cant say no b/c i love him. how do i tell if what im feeling w/ him is true and if so then do i say yes and be tied down at 16 or do i just turn him down completely? my rents love him and everything just about fits.. what do i do?
well, i think you should just tell him that you love him and everything but you just don't feel like your ready to get married yet. Yopu are only 16. just talk to him and tell him that you want to marry him someday but your still in high school and your just not ready yet. plus you would definately want to give it some more time and make sure he is everything you think he is and if he loves you as much as he says he does, then he won't have too much of a problem with it. honestly your 16, you haven't had much of a variety of guys yet and for all you know when you become an adult, your opinion of him might change and then ure your 18 years old and married to some1 that might have been what you wanted at 16, but not anymore. hope i gave you some helpful advice