-->im Elysa
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ok so theres this guy that i like and like i went out with him and then i guess things didnt work out and know he doesnt talk to me...and like before we went out he was like my really good friend now it seems that he doesnt even wanna know me how could i ask him if im to shy to go up to him around all his friends and ask him. (link)
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i understand that your shy.. but dont be. if you want him to talk to you, you should make that move first. go up to him casualy and talk to him. if you need to talk to him about whats going on betwen you guys, tell him you need to talk, then spill your guts out. tell him what your feeling between the not getting talked to, to what you want to ask. you can also write him a note telling him and explaining eveything your feeling. if you want you can have your friend talk to him for you.
i hope i help
.:elysa:.
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Ok, so theres this guy in school that i liked for a very long time. We were great friends last year and did almost everything together, it seemed like he wanted to be with me and i wanted to be with him. We started drfting apart and becoming less of friends. I get the feeling he almost thinks im kinda weird but im not sure. Hes flirting with other girls and not hangin out with me as mush as he used too, what should i do? whenever i try to stop liking him i feel a part of me that can never come back. I cant just go talk to him and tell him i almost cried over this several times and have no idea what to do. We arent that close of friends anymore so how do i express it? (link)
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i totaly know how you feel, if you let him go you feel that he'll be gone forever. if you really need to get your feelings out, i would write him a note asking what happened this year and remind him of all the good times you've had together and see what he says (dont be scared to express your feelings). if you want to hang out with him more, do it and be your self dont change your self to be like all the other girls he flirts with. when you talk to him, bring up a fun time/good memory you had together and go from there. if he thinks your wierd , so be it, dont worry about what people think. like i said you can write him a note or you can give him signals that you want to talk to him or hang out with him.
(you can tell me what happened if you want)
i hope i helped!!
.:elysa:.
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