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My friend is pregnant and she's only 13. She's freaking out a lot..and she wants me to help her. What should i do ? i dont wanna end up killing someone else's baby! (link)
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INFORM A RESPONSIBLE ADULT IMMEDIATELY!
I suggest her parents or guardians, but even the school counselor would help! There are many resources out there that will help.
She is very young. Just a kid herself. This may be a traumatizing experience. But there are options.
Remember, she did not do this alone. Don't make her feel bad or scared. Encourage her to tell a responsible adult. Don't be embarrassed. She's not the first teen in this position. Ensure her that you will be there for her and she'll get over the initial fear and circumstance.
But DO NOT MAKE ANY ASSUMPTIONS or decisions without guidance. Get experienced and professional help. She needs to know what term she is in and what options she has. (Adoption, etc..) Time is of essence. The longer she waits, the slimmer her choices get. Any fears she has will come to surface as they will. If she is afraid to confront her parents, tell her they will find out sooner or later. So she may as well tell them while she still has options. Even if they reject her, which is highly doubtful, there are resources that will HELP her. She will not be alone.
I stress to YOU that you encourage her to seek help. This is not just her life, but a baby's life. The right decisions need to be made and she needs to prevent it from happening again.
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i am a 14 yr old girl and of my boyfriend always wrestles with me what does that mean ? (link)
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It means he is coping a feel. He likes your body and wants you to know it. Are you comfortable with knowing that?
Now the point in telling you that is because if you continue to let it happen he will eventually try to persuade you in to doing something far more risky. You need to be ready to tell him no. Respect your body.
Do you mind the wrestling? You did not mention your feelings on it.
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Female 16...Is it wrong to go out with youre exboyfriends brother Even if he likes u? And what if your still in love with his brother but really want to go out with him? (link)
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Only ethically. You're 16 and have a long life ahead of you. What you do now is a reflection of what you will do later. As a teenager, you are creating patterns for yourself and it's good to keep them good and positive.
Going out with your ex's BROTHER and still having feelings for your ex. is begging for trouble... both now and later.
This would be a great Test of Character. If you can resist the urge of dating him, maybe it'll be alot easier when you're married and tempted for the cute waiter that keeps winking at you.
Think about it this way.
You can dump your ex's brother anytime, but your reputation will follow you wherever you go.
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what are some signs that a guy likes you? i mean this guy always tries to talk to me and come near me..and he always stares too, he is very sweet and nice and i just wanna know. o ya and my friend went up to him and asked him if he liked me(she did this w/o asking) and he stuttered and said" uh..uh..uh..no..i..i..dont..um..like her..i uh..i.sw..i swear!." then he told me about it. i mean does this mean he likes me?
thnx in advance (link)
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He's nervous. Probably a bit shy. Of course, he likes you. But to really find out, put him to the test. You have to take control. Start showing him that you're into him.
When you see him, start a conversation. He'll probably be really nervous at first and fumble around. But the more you talk with him, the more comfortable he'll become around you.
He has a crush on you and probably thinks that he doesn't exist to you.
Keep your friend out of the middle of it. It may seem like a good idea, but it's easy for someone who's majorly crushing on you, to misinterpret your friends actions. By this, I mean he may get the feeling your friend wants him for herself or worse, think that you guys are setting him up for a cruel prank.
You'll want to confront him, and privately, so that he knows that it's the real deal.
If you're not that forward, then try sending signals. Playfully wink at him or include him in activities. Invite him to tag along with you when he's around.
Get touchy feely with him. But don't be overbearing and inappropriate. Resting on his shoulder or putting your head on his arm are good signals.
The point of sending him signals is to make him comfortable enough to trust that you won't reject him when he asks you out.
Good luck
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