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okayyy, so long story short.
i met this guy and he seems to be interested, and he said he wants to hangout with me really bad. he also compliments me and my assets hhaha. well, we;re supposed to hangout and every single time we're supposed to we never end up hanging out bc he either has rugby or a project or osemthing. he told me to keep tuesday open bc thats the day we're going to go out, well its getting later and later and he hasnt msged me or anything,
what is his problem ?
thankss :)
oh.
and he msged me back last night (i wasnt on msn though so i got it today) and hes like "haha srry i was at rugby then i went to my buddys house and took and nap and fell asleep there"
wtf.
ahhaaha .
well the guy seems like he does like you but he has a really busy schedule and always breaks plans.However, him going over to his friends house after rugby then thats a little weird. So i think you should just let him keep coming to you, whenever he wants to make plans dont get your hopes up because he might pull one of his excuses. That doesn't mean that you have to be all distant with him, just date around until he actually goes through with it. I hope i helped love :)
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hi me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 and a half months im 19 and so is he when we first starting dating it was great he called me every night he texted me all the time and we always had fun together now he rarely calls or texts if he does call its around midnight and if i call him he is always with his friends and either says i cant talk right now or he talks to them the whole time while i am on the phone listeneing and sometimes he calls me when he is with the friends and i just have to listen to him talk to them and now we are always fighting he never invites me to do anything with him and his friends anymore either he awways teels me wat hes doing as hes doing it doesnt even invite me and his friends are over every night and he says he didnt invite them that they have a key and he doesnt even wanna b there with them we never really go out anymore we just sit at home and watch tv he says he is always romantic but i cant even remember the last time he was wat should i do to help our relationship
i can understand where you are coming from because it doesn't feel good to be somewhat neglected. and i think that is how you are feeling. but usually when people spend sooo much time together they start to get sick of it because they are so used to being with the same person everyday. i think right now he just wants to find sometime with his friends and just be around the guys. However, that doesn't give him an excuse to just cut you out of the picture and do the things that he does to you. The only way you can fix this situation is to let him know how you are feeling, just sit him down and tell him to let you talk and make sure he doesn't say anything until you are completely finished. I know how annoying it can be to talk to someone and have them sit there and not even listen to a word your saying. Let him know that you dont feel as though things are the way they used to be. Maybe you guys can come to some agreement because its obvious that he wants time with his friends. So you should be able to go out and do the same exact thing. When he's out with the guys, you can be out with your friends too. It's good to be able to balance relationships with boyfriends and best friends. if he can't handle being a boyfriend then you should take a break. This is def. not a selfish move on your part because it takes 2 people to have a relationship. As long as he can understand where your coming from things will be fine. :]
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ok so this guy has asked me out at least 4 times in the same semester of school and i said no to all of them and i wanted to say yes but i never had a boyfriend and he has ALOT of experience and i really like him, skool just ended and i found out he is leaving the skool so i still talk to on myspace (btw i never talked to him at skool)so he like says Damn u look fine in that picture and i love it when he says that so like i want to go out with him but he is going to a differnet skool. I want to ask 4 his number but im scared, i also want to ask if he wants to go out sometime but i know he will kiss me and i dont know how i never had a boyfriend
HELPPPP!!!!!
what could i do with him on our first date???
the most you can do is at least give it a try and go for it. I mean i know alot of people may say that a relationship wont work once the 2 people are away from eachother and in reality that is usually how it goes. but thats just the matter of how both of you guys feel about not being able to see eachother day. i think you should keep talking to him and let him make the first move and if he's shy then maybe you can just suggest hanging out, so then it doesn't sound like your trying to set up a date. find out what kind of things he likes to do and just get to know him. its quite obvious that he's interested and wants to be with you. That doesn't mean you have to rush into a relationship though. just take things slow and just get to know eachother better.
first dates are always weird at first but once you guys warm up to eachother it gets better.
as far as date ideas try doing something you are both interested in like mini golfing or swimming, something along those lines. Especially since its summer there are a lot more options. the date doesn't always have to be dinner and a movie because you always have that weird feeling of "is he going to pay?" or "should i bring my own money?" im a half beleiver in the boy paying for the girl but on first dates you guys should try going half and half i mean its fair and less uncomfortable. if he tries to kiss you then let him, if thats what you want to. If your not ready to kiss then just tell him that you dont feel comfortable on the first date. hope i helped you love :]
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