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I really like this boy at school...Matthew. I think he likes me to by the way he acts. We both are in relationships with people we love, but at the same time we love each other. What should we do? (link)
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I know exactly how it feels to love two people at the same time. People sometimes find it strange that someone can love two people, but you can.
Obviously this is just my opinion on what you should do, and it's what I would do in this situation.
Before you do anything, you should think about whether your current boyfriend or Matthew would be better for you. If you've started to drift towards Matthew, then perhaps this indicates that you're not 100% happy in your relationship.
And then you have the other side - can you see yourself and Matthew being together, 100% happy?
If you are definite in your feelings towards Matthew (and you're confident in the fact that he likes you too), then I advise you break up with your boyfriend. It might not seem like the good thing to do, but it's not really fair on your boyfriend if you like someone else too. Its not your fault, it's just the way love goes.
Then, if Matthew truly does have feelings for you and loves you, he'll notice that you and your boyfriend have split and he will probably break up with his girlfriend too. If he doesnt break up with his girlfriend then it's obvious that Matthew maybe isn't the one for you.
I hope this slightly helps your decision and everything. :)
Follow your heart, not your head. x
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I recently got out of a crappy relationship and can't even remember what I used to expect out of a guy because I was in this crappy relationship for so long. So what should I expect from a guy like in terms of "what he'd do to be with me" and "motives" and things he says and how much he assures me of his feelings and stuff? Like I know it varies from guy to guy so this is more of an opinion question, so let he hear your opinions and I'll defintely rate high! Thanks a bunch. (link)
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I was also in a crappy relationship for 8 months and I was in your position too. When you get out of the relationship it is hard to know what you really want from a guy because you're so used to being treated not so greatly.
In my opinion, a guy should be your best friend as well as your boyfriend. It's up to you to decide what you do and don't like in a guy, but if I could give you one tip it would be: if you think you've found a guy that you could possibly start a relationship with, test it by answering this question...
Can you see yourself still with that guy in 3 months?
If the answer is yes, then maybe you have found someone worth it. Just make sure you trust them and that you know them for who they are on the inside.
If the answer is no, then maybe he's not the right guy. If you have doubts, then they won't go away and you may have regrets.
I hope this helped, and in terms of what to expect from a guy..that's something you will soon figure out for yourself. Because all girls obviously have different tastes! But just make sure he makes you happy.
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what do you do to get a guy to like you but he thinks your not hott but you think he likes the way you act
what are good places to shop
and whatis like a good way to act
and wear your hair
and what to smell like
and how to act infront of his friends
and what to say and
i want to be myself like i am but HELP NOWWW and ill rate high =] (link)
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All guys are different, and all guys have different taste in girls. If you want to make a couple of changes to yourself to make this guy find you more attractive then there's nothing wrong with that. You mentioned that he likes the way you act, so there's definitely a start there and you could win him over.
Don't make the changes or improvements to yourself too big, because he might think you're trying to impress him too much and he might be put off of you. Some ideas could be:
Experiment with your hair and find a hairstyle that you think looks nice on you.
Look at the type of clothing he wears. He obviously likes those clothes, so maybe use some of his dress sense. For example, if he wears simple clothes, don't wear anything too over-the-top. If he wears 'hipster' kind of clothes, maybe go to that look slightly.
Make sure you smile. Guys love girls who smile!
Be nice to his friends, but not too nice. Speak to them during conversation but don't get into deep conversation with them. Your guy will either think you fancy one of them instead or he'll think you don't want to talk to him.
There's a few tips you could use, but remember to be yourself! If he likes the way you act, that's the first step to him liking you!
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