Hey guys im Lisa
Uhm. I think im pretty good at giving advice.
I want to be a psychiatrist when i grow up so, i suppose i should be good at this.
Im a freshmen, i live in Texas, and I like giving advice on love or friendships.
Gender: Female
Location: TX
Occupation: I play with crayons
Age: 15
Member Since: August 17, 2007
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Well for the past year i feel as if i put about 85% of the effort in me and my boyfriends relationship. Now he is a good boyfriend but its just the way i feel. Well i let my jelousy get in the way of our relationship ( so he says .) And he broke up with me monday night , But tuesday he told me how big of a mistake he made and he was truly sorry , he loved me with all his heart etc. But i want him to ( need me now ) . This whole year it was like he was my " Life support ". And when he had broken up with me my heart was broken and i mean broken . And i realized it wasnt healthy to be where i have to depend on a guy. I love him so much but this time around id like to turn the tables , ya know ? I took my moms advice ( not to call , text him etc. but to let him do all the calling ) and it worked , yesterday i only called one time and he called me 3 or 4 times , when usualy its me caling like every 10 mins . its hard but it makes me feel as if im not the " damsal in destress " . But how do i get him to be more ( on me , than me on him ) if that makes sence . I dont call him , he calls me ... What else . i want him to cator to me now . I love this boy , hes a major part in my life . This sunday will be our year . Advice please & no stupid stuff please . thanks :) (link)
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Well it sounds like this is a major part of your life; but maybe it doesnt need to be. If you really want him to cator to you you shouldnt think about this so much. Get out there and hang out with friends. If he really needs you in his life, like you do him, he'll chase you. Let him show you that he loves you, not just tell you.
+ Actions speak louder than words
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Ask me out already!!
I thinks he's shy with me. (He's pretty popular too. Got the ladies screaming! Hahaha.)
I think he's intimidated. ALL his friends and my friends tell me how much he likes me...
I'm pretty well known, a lot of guys like me, but I only like him & he knows that. Maybe its because I'm older than him. We've been talking/liking each other for a MONTH. Omg he's even gotten mad when he saw me eat lunch with this guy. Well gawsh hurry!
So tomorrow..... I'm going to talk to him about it! I've got the courage now! Yay! What are some good things to say? So far I have:
What's up with me & you?
You said when we get to know each other more we can go out.... well its been a month!
What else?
Thaaaaanx! =] (link)
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Welll i would say when you talk to him, dont attack him. He might get even more intimidated by you. Just tell him how you feel, and if he does feel the same way back he'll eventually do it.
Hope i helped!
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ill be 15 in a week and im with this guy and im kinda prude. i dont really no how to not be prude like i just feel akward soometimes when he like feels me up and stuff. and his friend asked me today why i went to his house last nite and no one was there and we didnt do n e thing then he called me prude. i feel so akward now. and idk what he ment by doing nothing but we couldnt have sex or n e thing cuz im on my period but he doesnt no that. ahhhhh this suckss. i would appricate some advicee =] (link)
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Well i think if your not comfortable with him to do those kinds of things, you shouldnt do those kinds of things. You should share your first time with someone who you feel completely comfortable with. You'll know when your ready, dont rush it!
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im writing my bf a poem about how much i love him and i will miss him when i move and that i wont forget him but i CANT figure out how to start it!! there is so much i want to say but i cant get it to go nicely when i try and write it out please help me!! (link)
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Maybe, if your having too hard of a time writing the poem yourself, you should get a poem off the internet. Their is this one quote from the movie "The Notebook", its says that everyday is not going to be easy but he doesnt want it to be, because if he wants to spend the rest of his life with her, he wants all of her. So i think you can just google that up.
Good luck on your poem!
(ps. if you love him that much, maybe you just need to let him know how much you love him. and, actions speak louder than words)
xxx
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