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hay yaw!this is letty!i`ve been through a dag gone lot in muh life so w/e questions yoOh have ii should b able to answer!luh ya!
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E-mail: lettylOu16@yahoO.cOm
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Location: batOn rOuqe,La!
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Member Since: July 14, 2004
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my friend is goin out with this guy... and she likes this other guy and that guy lyks her... shes thinking of dumping him... she duznt know what to do...
then i kind of like her boyfriend.. and me n him r pretty close friends what should i do plz answer!!! (link)
wow ive def been in that position before !!tell your friend how u feel about him..only if she is for sure shes gunna dump him!if shes a true friend she'll totally understand !keep me updated on what happens !love ya !
xO.Letty Lee


I really need your help! Okay me and this guy dated before like 5 times!(also my sister) my sister dosnt like him anymore..and i said i would never like him again..but i guess i shouldnt of said that..because i like him again! And i dont know what to do..i mean the only reason i like him is because he told me i was pretty and that he liked me and i was awesome and sweet and we are just like always together! I mean i really like him but the sad part is..he has a g/f! And i mean..im just hoping for the day to come when i can actually be w/ him! But you know..he told my sister he would go back out w/ me! And i told him how i felt because what if he dies tomorrow?? SO i told him..in an email..and im just waiting on his response! I mean hes really cute! And i would be soo happy w/ him?? SO..what should i do??

LOve,
-Confused- (link)
alrite..if u get a chance to b alone w/ him sometime soon b like who do you like more out of me and ur gf?or who do u feel more urself around!and just c what he says!like try and hint things out!if he likes u enough he'll dump his gf for u!just give it time but do ask ?'s to figure out how he feels!hoepfully he'll respond to ur email w/ a positive response!!g/luck grl n keep me updated on what happnes!lyl!
xO.Letty Lee!


Hi,
Im talking to this guy.But I love another guy but that guy doesn't love me back,or I dont think he does anyways.What should I do? (link)
well ask that guy who u love how he feels and if he doesnt feel the same as u feel for him then go ahead and c whats up w/ the other guy!lyl!
xO.Letty Lee!


ight letty here is a tough one that as soon as u read it ull kno who its about.....
i like this grl but everyone is tellin me that she is playin me and is jus fuckin wit my mind but i dont think she is ..so should i give her a chance or listen to my friends??? and b the way most of the ppl tellin me this shit like me ..sooo????

love u letty

your buddy toddy tj (link)
ok i kno i told u shit too..but i wasnt lieing to u at all..i was looking out for u cause it seems like u dont c some of the stuff she does!personally i think she is not sure what she wants..so she just goes around n does w/e!but i think u should ask tyler n them too..thay'll tell u how she is too!lyl hunnii!hope u can figure things out!
xO.Letty Lee!


ok... there is this guy i met at a party... and i got his number... and all... we use to talk alot... but jus about a few days ago it seems as like he is not trying to avoid me... i mean we made plans to go to the movies... but he never called me back... he told me he had feelings for me and i had feelings for him... so what do you think is wrong? did i do something wrong or is it with him?... and what should i do to make open up to me more?...

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umm try callin him and seeing whats up and why he hasnt called u..if he doesnt answer for u then i guess he has second thoughts about u n him!but if he does answer make plans n what not!and c if he holdds up to his word!lyl!
xO.Letty Lee!


I was with this guy for like 2 months and I had feelings for him like I have never had before and well lets just pretty much say I fell for him. Well he had to get away from everything because he was going threw alot and he told me that if I loved him like I said I did that I would move on, and I can't move on I am in love with him and I don't know what to do. I will wait until the day I die for him to come back to me and take me into his arms again, I will do anything to get my baby back. I have cryed my self till I can't cry no more, I am crying right this minute. Please help me I do not know what to do anymore, and I am about to drive myself insane.

Thank you and Love always
Me! (link)
well..for starters u gotta stop talkin w/ all these other dudes..if u truely love somebody ur not gunna go off and talk w/ all these other dudes n what not..and u kno what im talking about lol!umm..if u truely think its gunna work out somehow between u n him then keep ur hopes up but if u dont then go ahead and move on cause theres really nothing u can do!lyl!
xO.Letty Lee!


HEy babe!

ok i'll explain first!
Me and my BestFreind both dance at the same studio
both of our BoyFriend's dance there.

So we have fun, and go out places and stuff together. And we have dance offs and stuff. its not that slutty, so its ok. I have a lot of fun doing that, but i feel a little weird doing it in front of my BF. is there anyway i can make myself more comfortable? cuz i have a lot of fun when its just me and my friend. but they dance like that too when we have dance offs. so i dont know why i am so uncomfortable

Please help! (link)
hmmmm!this is a tuffy!you could jus TRY and pretend hes just another one of ur friends..but i kno thats a lil to hard!umm..just try and get comforatable dancing around him..then yawl will b able to have LOTS of more fun!love ya lots babe!
xO.Letty Lee!


Okay -- a few weeks or so i meet this really nice guy! Well -- now i think that i like him an i dont know if he likes me as much as i like him... He tells me that i will find out when i go spend the day with him! But, i dont know what to do -- im not a very pacient person! PpPpLeAsE help!

.-x-. HoEmOnKeY .-x-. (link)
alrity!if ur not patient enough to wait..lol..which i kno how u feel..just ask him..i kno it sounds embarrasing n all but hay!it mite b ur only way of finding out!just go for it!love ya lots mah hoemonkey!


Hmm.. I went to visit my friend, who lives 2 hours away from me., I was down there for a week, and met a kid named Kurtis..and since ive been back home, hes called me every single day..Im kinda starting to fall for him, and im not sure if thats a good idea. i mean im going back to my friends house this weekend to visit, but I want to ask him if he would like to come here and stay for a bit, but im not sure about that either.. Plz help in any way possible. (link)
aww!well if u really and truely like him then give it a chance!u never kno..things could b GREAT between yawl!the more u hang out and get to kno each other..the easier ur decision will b to make!have fun grl and keep me updated on what happens!love ya lots babe!
xO.Letty Lee!


okay -- i broke up w/ this guy a few days ago -- an now that i am continuning to talk with him -- im wondering what i should do -- i mean my mom and step dad dont like him -- should i put my self throught lying to them???

-- Letty -- its your hoemonkey -- i need some help! (link)
alrity!i kno how much u care about this boy!which is ALOT!u would go through hell and back for him!from what he said to u the other day i really think u should give him another chance..just ONE more..c if he means what he said..about changing for u!only do it if ur heart tells u too!love ya lots my hoe monkey!
xO.Letty Lee!


Ok, well here's the problem..i am really great friends with this one kid. hes a sweetheart and we talk about everything! he used to relaly like this one girl and she was just horrible to him and hes almost scared about being with anyone. now see im tryin to hint to him...i like YOU! and i do ALOT how do i get him to notice me as more than a friend? and help him get over his fear. (by the way...your column is amazing (link)
alrite..nuumber one..say ur having a convo w/ him..b like gosh..wouldnt it b so weird if we ever dated..and just c what he says!hopefully it will b a good response!just start to kinda get closer to him n everything..sit closer to him..have deeper conversations..then b like so if u had a chance to date n e body who would it b!tell me how things turn out!love ya lots babe!
xO.Letty Lee!


I'm dating this dude, and he's real sweet and everything and I guess you could say he was a pretty decent boyfriend alo but he's just not what I'm looking for and it also seems like he likes me WAY more than I like him. I just want to be single but I don't know how to tell him. He's going to be crushed! and also I'll have to do like all this over the phone which is gonna be hard because I'm shy at stuff like that because he doesn't have the internet and stuff =/ but do you think that the reason why I can't seem to break up with him is because it's something good? Because I just don't see it that way but it could be I guess .. errr I don't know what to do anymore I'm soo confused right about now =( What do you think I should do?
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alrity!wow..this JUST happened to me!it`s crazy!i had to tell the boy that i just wanted to b single for now because its summer and i wanted to have fun!i mean..he cared for me SO frikken much..i felt so bad that i cried and i couldnt even eat..cause i felt like the food would just come rite back out!now if u break up w/ him its guna b REALLY hard..beleive me!its gunna make u feel really bad but in the long run u wont regret it!tell him how u feel and if he doesnt understand where ur coming from then theres just not much u can do!g/luck w/ everything grl and tell me how things turn out!love ya lots babe!
xO.Letty Lee!


okay i really really really really still love my x but hes a major playa we went out twice and both times it didn't work out but we still talk alot online and stuff but its not the same. i still like him alot but i try to make it sound like i don't care everytime his name comes up in a convo wit me and my friends but i really do care and i really do have feelings for him still! and i knoe that i can have almost n e guy i want i mean a lot of guys like me so y do i want him soo much???

please help me out asap!!
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omg sooooooo been there!it sux! u deserve so much better..i had a bf just like that..but i had to dump him and get over him..it took a LONG time but it happened..and i found someone else that makes me totally happy!beleive me..u`ll cry alot if u try and get over him and all but in the end ur gunna b like wow..i cant beleive i dont care about him n e more..thats what happened to me!i was just amazed how much i didnt care or think about him n e more..cause he was all i used to think about ..even though he hurt me alot!well lyl babe
xO.Letty Lee!


Hey, So My BF is great, and my best friend is going out with his brother... its a lot of fun. but i am scared. Yesterday, my friend was talking to them on the phone and he said he was thinking about breaking up with me because i havent been acting like myself. The three of them (my BF, my friend, and her BF) are coming over today.

I'm so scared, i dont know what to do.

PLEASe hELP!! (link)
ok..if u like him enough then start trying to make a differencee in how u act!like ASAP!cause we cant have u gettin dumped!if that doesnt work then get ur friend to talk to him and ask him in what ways have u not been acting like urself and then she can tell u and u can try and work on that!goodluck grl!!!tell me how it went afterwards!lyl babe!
xO.Letty Lee!


Hey, guys! I'm supposed to call this guy I like back in ten minutes. We're not dating, but we can both tell it will happen soon. He asked to see me again, and we couldn't come up with things to do. He said we could go swimming, but I'm not the most confident person, and I wouldn't feel comfortable swimming infront of him. I don't want to tell him this, because it's highly embarrassing and something I just wish to keep to myself. I know you could tell me that if I can't tell him something like this a relationship wouldn't be good, I just don't feel like it's his business. Can someone please tell me what to say to him, or suggest another outing? Please help me!! (link)
man o man!DEF kno where ur coming from!gosh!my ex asked me to go swimming one time before we starting dating and i was like yeah rite..i dont want him to c me in a bikini just yet..i mean u gotta get used to them before they can get all that greatness!how bout the movies?or the mall?those always do me just fine!:-D!lyl babe!
xO.Letty Lee!


Ok So 6 guys like me.. i think its because i'm a freshman and older guys want to go out with me cuz i'm new or whatever,. i already know 3 of the guys ,. the other guys i met at camp or the races,. and talk on the phone.. ok the problem is.. while i was talking about all these guys i have a guy already..of about 2 years off n on ... I broke up with him 12 out of 15 times.. & no matter what we always run back to eachother,. its like trUe love.. haha ne ways.. these other guys got me thinking and i think it might be a good idea that we need to see other people.. =/ Since it is highschool ,.. but seroiusly,. a while back my guy said that if i dump him one more time that hes not coming back or go out with me again.. so now i'm afraid to lose him,. and what if hes the "one",... i'm so confused.. last night while i was talking to these 6 other guys on the internet i didnt even notice that my boyfriend was on =x opps? well we havent been talking Much,. we never get together? .. what should i do? i'll rate =)

thAnkS gUyS n GalS =) (link)
hay babe!wow..ive DEF been in that position..and let me tell u ITS SO HARD because u dont kno what the rite decision is..i was always afraid that if i ended things w/ *Beaux* i woulda ended soemthing so great..or something that coulda lasted forever!but i did..and i moved on..and now have this wonderful bf that just makes me so happy!i def think you should give somebody else a turn!and if it doesnt turn out like u want it..and if ur ex or w/e likes u enough and cares for u enough then he'll welcome u back w/ open arms!lyl babe!
xO.Letty Lee!


My gUy ALWAYS trys to make me JealoUs ,. i hate it iTs Such a tuRn off! He thinkS hes 10x better Than Me.. he tells me he is gonna meet hot guRls at the BEach and all this shit,. i try to tell him but really he doesnt get the picture,. he always talks bout all the sports he plays and i only play softball =/ so i feel like a dork when he asks.. so whats the next sport coming up for you? and i'm like i only play 1... and he knows that! he always brags about VarSity f0otball n hes gonna play on it when hes only a freshman,.! when hes at his friends house he makes fun of me ova the internet and believe me i kn0o its him. So one day i told him that i'm gonna run away with Ashton kutcher on a derserted island,. hah i'm in l0ve with him!!! ,. So now We both Make Each other Jealous n than we always GetS in fights,.

hah any advice? (link)
gollie grl!im surprised yoOh put up w/ him for that long!i woulda got rid of him already OR used his lil game against him and woulda b like yeah im going to the mall w/ my friends ..were gunna go c all the hott guys!(done that before)and let me tell u..it worked quite well!if hes sucha asshole then i think u should dump him..cause it sounds like u deserve WAY better!!lyl grl!
xO.Letty Lee




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