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I'm a 14 yrs old girl, my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 2 months now and he's changed. He also thought i was cheating on him because i thought we were broken up so i told another boy we would talk. well I know my boyfriend still likes me and i still like him too. He never shows emotion like i never kno if he's mad sad or if he even cares but i know he cares. Since i don't kno he gets mad a lot. We also hardly talk and now he's talking about sex. Which i've been thinking about but why should i give him what he wants if he doesn't give me what i want someone to talk to. Should I stay with him to find out why he acts this way or if somethings going on that I don't know? or Should leave him alone and find someone new? but you have to keep in mind he doesn't tell me alot so there is alot I don't know about him. (link)
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Talk to him more. You have to be good friends with someone before you start a solid relationship with him/her. I'd recommend finding out more about him. Tell this 'other boy' that he'll have to wait, and you're in a weird place right now and at a relationship crossroads. Get to know your boyfriend better, and I'd recommend being more forward. Don't know if you're broken up or not? Why not just ask him? Can't tell if he's sad or mad? Ask him that too! You don't have to be incredibly blunt or anything, but I think you'll find that if you're direct, you can get surprisingly clear answers.
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Hey everyone!!
Well I met this guy through one of my friends and we went on our first date together. I thought everything worked out well so on the next day we went on another date. This next date all the guy wanted to do was have sex with me and he was all over me too. I'm really not sure if I should see him again or not because I know that he really wants to be with me but I'm not sure that I feel the same. (He's really sex- oriented). After our date he called me to rell me he wanted to hang out again. Should I give him an extra shot or just give up on him and move on, because all he wants is my a**.lol. Please help. Xo> I'll Rate!! (link)
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I think most women don't realize that they're in complete control. Really, if you like the guy, then give him another shot. It's the same old game, give a wolf a taste, and then keep him hungry. If he thinks that there's a chance of sex, in all honesty, you can keep him dangling for months at least
If you don't, and you think he just wants sex, then just dump him. Hanging out should be okay, as long as you're with other friends. But seriously, the females call the shots.
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Ok so i just called my boyfriend, and all of the sudden it feels like i cant even connect with him anymore. (I'm 13 and hes 16) I called him and asked if he was going to the football game Friday nite, and he said probably not. I was trying to hint to him that I was going and that I wanted to see him, but he would'nt really talk. so i lied and told him I needed to do my homework so I could get off the phone w/ him. What do you think we should talk about? (link)
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The whole "hinting" thing in love is usually a road to all sorts of confusion, miscommunication and other such things that no one wants to deal with. Miscommunication can be a serious problem in most relationships, and "hinting" can sometimes be the cause of that. If he says he's not going, and you try to hint that you're going, you might not get the message across. Instead of hinting next time, tell him you want to see him. The best way to accomplish anything in relationships is to just come out and say it.
This doesn't mean be ridiculously blunt or anything - you can still sugar-coat things, but don't beat around the bush if you have something important to say.
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