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well im always giving advice 2 my friends.i sumtimes need a little advice my self.....im very random and happy most of the time.im always up for a fight with live and i love spending time with my friends and family.i have strong opions on things.i always stick by my homegirls.....i always love talking alot.and im always here....i that is mostly it.....if u have any ?'s then just talk 2 me.
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Okay, well my boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 years. Well I went away on vacation, just for 2 days, to a spa. Well, my bf has a niece, and he called me asking to come home, because his neice was sick, but she didnt have a fever, and he thought she was having "feminine problems". Well as soon as i came home i saw his friends car. They've known each other forever, and have a lot in common, and shes really sexy. She could get any guy she wants, but she always wanted to be with MY bf, but he never liked her. Well when i walked inside, she was giving him a hug, and was like, "I am sssoooo glad you called, oh, hey girl, he needed help, and i came to the rescue. We were going to go get dinner, but i guess we can cancel the reservation..." and then my bf was like, "How about i make us dinner?" and we both agreed. Well, ever since then, his friend, shes been there every time im not. I put my car in the garage sometimes, and shes always there. When the door wasnt open, and she couldnt find the key, she climbed in our window. WHILE WE WERE HAVING SEX! i couldnt believe it. I asked her to back off, that we were in love and all she said was, "I wouldn't be so sure of your relationship, when he has a hot friend, who has a lot in common, who hes known forever." I told him, but he said dont worry. Idk, what should i do?? I trust him, but i can never be too sure. Who should i trust? Thanks (link)
ok do you love your bf???? and you trust him....then if you 2 really love each other then he will fall for you and not the other girl.my friends dont like my bf and his mom doesnt like me either and we are always breaking up because of other people....but i know that he loves me and i love him and i trust him that he is not going out with another girl....if you truelly love him then i would trust him. and if that girl is still like that then act like you dont care.....in the end i am pretty sure your bf will still be with you. good luck


okay.
well there this really sweet guy whos kinda shy, whos 18 and totally hot.
but he blazes,
and i dont really know what he expects of girls to do with him when they're together, or even just chillen.
so i asked him if hes just looking to fool around with girls or a gf, and he said neither really im just single,
now what does that mean ?
and, he always txts me saying babe and cutie and stuff :)
so idk what to do.
i dont want to come on too strong,
but i want to know lmao.
all my friends say i can get whoever i want,
but idk ! :P (link)
ok well i have the same problem but i went out with him,but ok if you flrit with him and he flrits back and he still texts you..then he likes you and you like him.so it will be awhile maybe but trust me he will ask you out sooner or later....you just have to wait and go along with life as it is but still try to find out things but dont like forse things out of him but just talk to him nromally


Okay, this is rather long, I'm sorry.
I'm currently dating this guy, we've been together for about a little more than half a year, maybe about two months more. But recently, his ex came back into the city. They were together, two years ago but then they broke up and she left for Penn, (or at least this is what his friend told me) But anyways, it has been really awkward knowing that she is in our same school and she is his ex. I guess everything would be okay- I could live with it if she didn't happen to be living with him as well. Because her parents and his parents are very close friends and since they just moved back and they didn't seem to find a house to settle down in, they are living in my boyfriends house...which is extremely awkward because when I go over to his house, I see her and it just, I guess annoys me or makes me jealous to see her? Since she apparently spends a lot more time with him than I do. But that isn't the biggest problem, it is the fact that she confronted to me and said that she stilled liked my boyfriend and she had decided to try and win him back. And I don't know- she seems to have the upper side since she is pretty, intelligent and everything and I'm really nervous right now. I have no idea what to do. I told my friends and they tell me that everything is going to be alright and that I should have trust in him, I do but it isn't like it won't be possible- they're living together! So, really, can I have some advice? I'm really confused, worried and nervous right now. I really don't want to lose him. Thank you so much. (link)
ok well just clam down and breathe.ok if you really love and trust your boyfriend then he will do the right thing and be with you.....see she is probaly trying to get u jelous because she know you love him and she know that you might break up with him because you really like him......well when your over there just act like your her friend even if you dont like her.....if she sees how you two love each other then she will proalby back off..just foucse on your boyfriend and less of her. i hope it works out!!




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