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okay im a girl and there is this guy 2 years older than me and we are in hs... he wont leave me alone... and ive been tryin to ignore him because he gets attached to people and started saying i love you on our fone conversations... when i really dont like him at all... now i dont want ne thing to do with him.. how do i tell him to leave me alone and stay out of my life? without hurting his feelings... because i dont want to be hurtful..

Try to let him down easily, tell him "I am so sorry but, I don't like you the same way you like me. My feelings for you aren't like that, maybe we can be friends? I understand if you wouldn't want to be." Try that.Hope I HELPED!

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At the school dance the other night, i danced with one of my good friends who i found out liked me..and he's going to ask me out. I like him a lot as a friend and i think that I would like to give dating him a shot. Trouble is, my best friend really likes him. He doesn't like her in that way, and my best friend is a great friend to me and everybody else...now people are telling me that i shouldn't have danced with him because it was a mean thing to do to my best friend.What do i do about this whole situation?

That is not mean. Your friend may be mad but she shouldn't be. She can't make him like her because he likes her. This has happened to me before. You should tell her your sorry but you've been crushing on him for a long time and he likes you back so this may work, tell her all you need her to do is support you and wish you the best of luck. Hope I Helped.

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I am 14, in ninth grade, and I am female.

Okay, first I'm going to give a little backround information.

I had a boyfriend that tried to cheat on me with his ex girlfriend. I knew that I couldn't trust him ever again, so I broke up with him yesterday. Don't worry, I feel really good about it.

Well, a few days ago, I found out from one of my friends that another friend of mine, Ricky, likes me. At first, I wasn't sure I could trust the friend that told me, T.J., because T.J. is weird like that. Then, my best friend Megan told me yesterday that Ricky has liked me for a long time.

My question is, is it okay to go ahead and date Ricky so soon after dumping my previous boyfriend?

~ClarinetKtM

It is so OK to date your friend Ricky. This would be a great chance for you to forget about that loser and get out more. And since you like him that makes it better. I wish the best of luck.
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my boy friend and i recently broke up .. because i was mad at him.. so he dumped me.. and i no i dhouldnt feel upset.. but i do.. how do i cheer myself up. kas it doesnt feel like anything has changed.. it feels like we r still goin out. how do i get over it?

What I do after break ups is write poems on how I feel. Maybe if you talk to your boyfriend about the problem and say can we still be friends. You might feel better. Try to get out more too, or maybe it might be time to whip out the pint of ice cream and a sad movie and some tissues. That might help to. But just try to figure out the problem and to treat yourself right.
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