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hey its jen n rachael! we are so excited about our new advice column! i hope we can help yoo guys! we love yoo! xoxo
E-mail: twstnrache@sbcglobal.net
Gender: Female
Location: p.h. chi-town!
Age: 14
AIM: x princess019 x
Member Since: March 19, 2005
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Last Update: November 19, 2005
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Help!! Mine and my girlfriend's 1 year anniversary is tomorrow, and we're still searching for something to do in the daytime. We have the whole evening and night planned out, making dinner and all that, but we need ideas for what to do during the day other than our usual movie/mall/stay at home.
We're 17 and 18 and neither of us have our liscense, so we're kinda limited, but her parents are willing to take us if its not too much. (link)
i think tath it shouldn't matter what you do with her, just as long as your with eachother and having a good time!


Dear Rache and Jen,
I really like this kid, I have since like last year and he's very cute! But here's the thing hes like extremely shy and won't make a move on any girl! I really want to be with him but he is so shy. What can I do to be able to be his girlfriend?

Wants a Shy Guy (link)
i hate when that happends! i hate when theres a reely hott guy and yoo wanna get with him so bad- but then yoo find out hes reely shy! well you have to do things to make him no that you like him- tell me how that works, and where you get from there! xoxo *rache


Dear Jen and Rachel,
My love life sucks.I'm still a virgin and im 46 years old. I've never had a first kiss or even had a hug from a girl im not related to.But the other thing is that im a lesbian. LESBIAN PRIDE ALL THE WAY!!! Sorry bout that... So yeah what should i do to try to have a love life. Im planning on having a spem injected in my vaginia so my and my "future wife" (if i get one) can be happy with a child. PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE ON WHAT TO DO TO FIND A GOOD SEXY LADY!!!??
Your new friend,
*Barb* (link)
sorry, im not really smart in the area of lesbians, so im not sure how to answer your question. i guess you will just have to go out to bars and find someone! *rache


Thank god i have someone to talk to and i need some advice. Ok, i like this guy, and i dated him 2 times. Im so in love w/ him and i want him to be with me and not this other girl. They have been dating since Feburary. I hate seeing them together, and they both flirt constanly, and im sick of it. I want to like kill myself cause i cant get over him. Can you help me with this, do u know anyone who has gone through this be4?? HELP ME!!

D- lover (link)
i no exactly what your going through! i am kind of going through it rite now-- but i try to help my friend who cant get over this one boy.

ok my advice is to get away from this guy starting... NOW! you can still talk to him and stuff but you have to show him that you are no longer interested in him, because if he still thinks you like him, he will tease you about it with the other girl and try to make you more jealous because thats how guys are! and the BIGGEST mistake a girl can make is to kill herself because of a guy! thats crazy hun! there are plenty of fish in the sea- you just have to find your nemo! so the moral of this 'advice' is to stay away from him- go for other guys because im sure you are a beautiful girl and some guy will be very lucky to hold you in his arms someday! i hope i helped! xoxo *rache

if this is who i think it is- you can call me anytime- you no who yoo are! mwah!


I Chance am righting back ok its not any girl in particular its just all the popular girls think im ugly which aint kool am i right or am i right (link)
well chance, you aren't ugly! none of God's creations are ugly. so never doubt yourself- chance... your a funny guy, and even if they do think you are ugly, they should look past your looks and go for your personality! good luck! xoxo *jen n rache*


hello rachael and jen i have been called flat at my school and i have had it i can not stand it anymore. they bother me so much!!!!!!!!!!!
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ok well unfortunately i have been called that too... but i mean its something yoo gotta live with! its not your fault- but just make fun of yourself for it- dont be shy about it cuz yoo no yoo can't do anything about it! good luck! xoxo *rache


Hey guys, I've been single for a really long time now and I really want a boyfriend. I'm 14/f, and I feel like I'll never get a boyfriend again. I still feel really bad from my last relationship. I have no guys to talk to or anything. When I go places, I hate seeing people with their boyfriend or girlfriend and having a good time, or even Valentines Day and Sweetest Day. How do i meet guys? I used to always go to the mall and the movies, and I liked people there but I'm really shy. It's hard to just go up to people and say something. How can I get some guy friends atleast, so I have someone to talk to? Thank you so much to anyone who answers! I'm so sorry this was long. (link)
one word. FLIRT! you have to come out of your shell (dont be shy anymore!) you gotta put yourself out there so guys will notice you! you have to be flirty and look flirty! always laugh at a guy and be "touchy feely" lol (works like a charm) i hope i helped! if you need anymore help IM me at x princess019 x- good luck!


Dear Jen and "Rache",
I have been growing up in a bad home in the ghetto and in the beginning i had sex with many different women because i had a lot of money and the hoes were cheap. But now i have turned gay and have been thinking about becoming a Jew. I dont really want to be a homosexual Jew anytime soon. What should i do? (link)
thats a tough situation. if you WANT to become a homosexual, then go for it. but if there is some reason that you dont want to, then turn yourself away from it. and there is nothing wrong becoming Jewish. if you know anyone thats Jewish, or if you know of any Jewish churches visit them and learn more about the religion so then you can for sure decide what you would like to do. good luck! xoxo *rache


well i have been looking at porn for a while and idk wut to do about it i mean when i am watching it i love it i like watching te girls make out and other stuff like that and i tend to think i am a lesbo what should i do? (link)
thats a tuff one! well there is nothing wrong with being a lesbian, but if YOU personally think its weird then stay away from it... sometimes yoo have to force yourself to go in a different direction. if yoo dont mind being a lesbian- then go ahead and look and enjoy watching porn. but if you DO NOT want to be a lesbian then i would turn away from it. i hope i helped! xoxo *rache n jen


So many people in my grade have a b/f or g/f but they don't take it seriuosly. In the hall all they do is say "hey" to each other, they talk to each other on-line about "who knows what?" and in their binders they write "I love----". They don't talk on the fone or anything like that.I feel so left out, but if i ask a girl out it would be weird for me to be going out w/ a girl and telling everyone, but the girl wouldn't look me in the eye or anything like that. it's so stupid. What could i do so i don't feel left out? (link)
ok this is what ya gotta do! YOO have to be the 'trend setter' of dating lol- yoo have to be the one to say- thats so stupid when yoo just say hi! so ask this girl out- and talk to her AS MUCH AS YOO CAN! and go places with her and be flirty with her! and i agree- i think AIM is so annoying cuz its just for the people that are to scared to say things for themselves! so talk on tha fone! good luck!


can the foods you eat affect your skin(acne)? does eating chocolate or greasy foods make you break out? and does makeup make you break out? i heard these were a myth but i think this is true.. well in my case.
THANKS!! (link)
well.. it kinda depends on what type of skin yoo have. chocolate and greasy foods CAN make yoo break out but not every single time yoo eat a hershey lol ya no? and with makeup, if yoo use foundation, every night, yoo MUST wash yer face- not just soap and water- yoo need a deep cleansing soap. yoo can also try pro-active or acne-free! i hope my advice works!




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