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Hey! I am a normal 15 year old girl. I like to play sports and I love to shop. I have had many experences with guys, some good and some not so good. You can ask me about anything!
Gender: Female
Location: Minnesota
Occupation: High School
Age: 15
AIM: eikcaj113
Member Since: August 5, 2004
Answers: 6
Last Update: August 17, 2004
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I told my best friends boyfriend that i thought my boyfriend did too much tounge and my friend's boyfriend is bestfriends with my boyfriend so ik he told him what i said. but when i asked him if he told my boyfriend what i had said he denyed it and said he did tell him but now my bf seems to be kinda scared to kiss me now. i feel soo bad about what I said!! what should i do? (link)
You have to let him know if the way he kisses you makes you feel uncomfortable. I know it is really hard to talk to guys about that kind of stuff, but you have to try. If he truly wants to be with you he will kiss you how you want to be kissed! Good luck!!!


okay... a year ago today this kid *ill just say his name is andy... asked me out. And today i saw him for the first time this summer.
As soon as i saw him, its like i fell in love all over again. Now, i cant stop thinking about him. I miss him so much. Hes hurt me before, but i think hes changed, cause online, hes been wicked nice and stuff. Today, when i saw him, (it was at a sailing regatta/cookout thing) he kept looking at me, and we made big eye-contact. And every time i saw him, hed be looking over at where i was sitting. Im not sure how he feels tho...i just want to know if he thinks about me as much as i do him... i dont know what to do? Do i tell him i have feelings again? Help? im so afraid he'l think im weird if i say something.. thanks

~ CORI ~ xox (link)
Yes, you should tell him how you feel. Guys dont open up easy, so girls need to be the ones to start the conversation. But, if he does say he likes you then you need to take it slow. If he has hurt you before it is likely he will do it again. Dont rush into anything, and good luck!


im 14... and i dont really have a lot of gurlfriends, i from a family with 9 boys.. im the only gurl, anywho... Well i play the guitar in this band i'm in and i have the biggest crush on the singer *Brandon he is like the ultimate guy, we hang out all the time.. he calls me and stuff were really close!! and i just cant seem to find the right time to tell him, or anything and i have NO idea what to do cuz he's like my best friend... ya know!! i just really like him a lot and dont wanna blow my chance, or plussss do you think i should even tell him??? pleaseee help me i am sooo confusedd!! please ILL RATE!

signed,
what should i do. (link)
Just tell him. Dont try to plan out when and where cause nothing is ever perfect and goes exactlly how you planned. Just do it when you have the courage and it feels right.


i like this boy..alot...buttttt i dunno if he likes me..and i DONT WANT TO ASK HIM but back in middle schooll he alwayz flirted wit mme an all but now i dont know noo mo..r u gonna help or what? (link)
You cant be shy. You have to tell him how you feel and make sure he understands where you are coming from. Dont sit back and hope he comes to you, guys dont exactlly jump on the opportuntiy. Oh, and dont have your friend tell him how you feel, things with a messanger always get complicated!! Even if he doesnt like you how you like him, guys can forget really easy, and I am sure he wont act weird around you! Good luck!!!




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