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well my names jessica and im 13 and im really nice if you get to know me.i know how to fix problems very easly because im the head of the advice club at my school.

advice

i am 15 and have really small boobs like a 32 A and what happens if when i make out with my bf he wants to feel up my shirt, it would be really embarassing becuase im so small, but i dont want him to think im not intrested. What should i do? and how long should i know him before i let him do this?

ohh umm wow..
not to sound prude or w.e..
but i dnt think he should do that at all..
you have to protect yourself and like not let them abuse of you..im not a nun or anything but yeaa. lol.

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Okay okay...Im 14/f and im dating this guy.
Hes so sweet. And hes perfect. And i love him.

And okay...ive dated guys in the past, but it was stupid and we never did anything. The farthest ive ever gotten with any guy was this one time, i got really drunk and we kissed. He was trying to make out with me but idk...he just sorta sucked on my lips until i pulled away. Like i said, i was drunk.

But this ones perfect. Hes been moving at a pretty good pace for me. We hold hands and cuddle and stuff and we've been on one date (to the movies with a bunch of friends) and it was great. So tomarrow night he wants to go to this great ice cream place, just me and him. Im really excited. Every once in a while, on the phone, he mentions something about kissing me. Ive never really kissed a guy, for real. And im nervous that i'll skrew i up or something. i dont need kissing lessons or directions really, just some pointers on keeping it simple and stuff.

like What do guys my age expect for their first kiss with a girl?

also, when you just do a simple peck, do you just brush up against his lips or like suck in or what????

idk...

help.

hey,
well im 13 and my 1st kiss was when i was 12...i didnt really know what i was doing but i had kissed guys before but not one i liked. well any how...if i were you i would pull in tilt your head to the right..give him a nice peck..and then pull away slowly while smiling and remember to close your eyes because when you pull away fast the guy would be like ohh she dosnt like how i kiss or w.e. how i helped =]

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We known each other since last december 2nd.but on the internet.I'm student and he is in military.I'm 18 and he's 22.we sent an emails,chats,web-cam,phone calls,mesages each other.we talked about life and any other things.we passed the hard time but we still talking to each other.sometime late in July he have to deploy in Iraq again.I knew that I like him.He like me too.he said before he go he want to see me but he asked me "if you want to!its up to you".he said he care about my decision.I really want to see him too.I know some of the blind dates are silly and funny and horrible.but I don't know I want to see him.I know about him.{not the rest of the things..but I know about him}what should I do?I just want to see him before he go.cuz nobody can knows military men's tomorrow.Especially Marines.please tell me what to do?

okay this is the best way i can tell you this..
SEE HIM =]
my brothers in IRAQ
and i gave him a million hugs and kisses before leaving so do the same with him..
it wont hurt and youll never know what wuld happen when he comes home ;]

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theres this guy who i met on friday at the theatres and i fell in love with him. Even though im 14 and hes 15 i think it could stil work.We have been texting each other when i was babysitting he asked me to go to the movies with him bt i couldnt go. i odnt knoe if he likes me or just wantsd to hang out. He goes to a different school and i jst dont knoe at to do

okay well..right now im going thrue the same thing more or less....im 13 and hes 14..and well i think you should talk to him and ask him if he likes you and try to make things work out =] if anything just come back to me =] thank you.

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well the guy i like went to a different school and i never saw him again since than. things were never good between us and i know he liked me but i always kinda turned him down (because i always got nervous when he talked to me and said things i dont wanna say. especally when he told me he loved me he was like: i love you and i tried to be your friend but you where so mean and than i was like: yeah i know i love beeing mean.)) I DONT KNOW WHY I SAID THAT. it was like another person was talking but not me.i apologized and he said it's okay but we never talked so much after that but he still looked at me alot , gave me high five and talked to me but only sometimes. so anyway he went to a differnet school now and i love him soooo much. he is all i can think about and the school is not the same without him. everything sucks now. i feel like there is nothing good in my life anymore. i miss him so much. and the sad thing is that i dont have many friends. just one , but she lives far away and also goes to a different school and one who is in 5th grade (i'm in 8th grade by the way the boy i like is in 9th grade ) so i feel so terrible and as i was saying i love him very much and now he's just gone...
it hurts so badly
please help

oh yeah and dont tell me what kinda idiot i was because i know that myself
thx

okay talk more to the guy. and about the friends theme, get into clubs make new friends. if you really want to get to know someone go up to them and say hi my name is_____ whats yours? and just start a convo. its that easy. well Hope I Helped!!!

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ok so there's this guy who ive known for about two years now and i guess you could say we're "ok", like not exactly BEST friends, but friends, but I think he's VERY cute. Anyway, we're not in the same class this year, so i never really see him that much. well, yesterday i saw him and i noticed as i was walking up to him, he kept staring at me, but obviously, and he wouldnt turn away. so i said, "what?" and he said nothing and kept walking. for some reason though, i didnt think it was "because i looked good" or something like that, then again maybe it could have meant that. does anyone have any ideas as to why he was doing that?

okay this is as simply as i might say it. ask him if he likes you. or tell a friend to ask him or something its that easy. dont be afraid. and if he does maybe hell ask you out and that will be perfect.

Hope I Helped!!!

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ohkay so i kinda like this guy. [= but like i'm really confused whether he likes me or not /=. well before he was sayin that he really wanted me to give him a hug. but sometimes he acts like a total loser. like randomly he'll b like why r you so obsessed with me? and he's always like alex! you stalker! and then just today i go you never tell me anything! you always make me so confused! then he goes wtf. we're not going out. so then i was like huh? but like he's always waving to me. and saying "its alex" in the halls. so do you think that he likes me or not?

okay guys these days just want to keep us all guessing. just ask him straight up do you like me or not? play hard to get before you ask him though. like ignore him and make him go up to you to say hi or something.

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