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My boyfriend from last year broke up with me for his ex girlfriend. We were only going out for about a month, but now him and his ex just broke up again and now he wants to go back out with me. I'm not sure yet, I mean i really do like him but when he broke up with me i just felt like dying, i didn't know what to do with myself. i kind of want to go back out with him just to get back at him, but i know i'll end up falling for him again. (link)
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It's great to give second chances.. but don't just forgive and forget. Maybe he did realize he was wrong and wants you back, but maybe things just didn't work out between him and her and, not wanting to be alone, he came to you. If your heart says go for it, then go for it, but you need to sit him down first and explain that you won't be his "back-up". In order to be happy in a relationship you both need to know you're #1 to the other.
Honestly.. this guy sounds confused and indecisive. He also can't seem to commit.. he's been paddeling between the two of you! Wouldn't you say the other girl gave him a second chance and it didn't work out?
If you're still unsure of your feelings tell him you jsut need some time to figure out if you really want to be with him after how he hurt you. He should respect that and if he waits for you it will show his willingness to commit this time and your heart can guide you from there..
Good Luck!
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