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Hey everyone! My name's Amber, I'm 18 years old, and I love giving advice. Feel free to ask anything, and I will try to help you the best that I can!

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Ok. how do you make out? cause i have no idea how to or what it is! can someone tell me what it is and how you do it? I REALLY NEED HELP! and if the person your doing it with knows how will you look like an idiot or can they not even tell?

I don't think anyone really knows how to make out for the first time. I was terrified of doing it, and was so scared that I was going to do something wrong and embarass myself. But it's not that big of a deal. Just follow the guy as you go along. Let him lead, lol.

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Well I really like this guy and it seems like he likes me too. Should I ask him out or wait for him to ask me out?

Talk to him more, flirt a lil bit, and if he doesnt ask you out, then ask him out! Guys like confident, up-front girls.

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im 17/f and i have been with my bf (17/m) for almost 6 months. we are completely in love and very serious. this was MY idea just to clear it up.
being that we are going to be so serious and before we nkow it even living together ..i figure we are still young and many people make the mistake of marrying a high school sweetheart without exploring other people. so my idea is for our 6 months we each get sexual with another person. do you know anyone who has done this? how did it work out? whenever i think about him with somenoe else its so weird! and the same for him thinking about me with someone else. this can really bring us to be a lot more open and trusting..but im also afraid i might feel hurt..thinking about another girl pleasing him and making love to him kinda gets me upset..but then i think how i will get the same thing so i feel better..i guess right now i am 50/50. what do you think about my idea..being with someone else for a day?

If you both think it's a bad idea, and if you are truely in love with HIM, and both of you are serious about each other, then why would you want to have another person just to be sexual with??

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I have ben hurt many times by guys. Too many times! I always seem to fall for the wrong type, and I really mean the WRONG type! They all seem great at first but then the truth comes out. My ex-boyfriends have either been phycos, nymphos, mythomaniacs, cheaters or just plain assholes!! I have lost count on how many night I have fallen asleep crying! I thought I had given up on boyfriends and then my present boyfriend came along and seems really nice and all. Sure, he cheated on me once in the begining of out relationship but that's normal for me now, I guess that's just a thing that guys do so I have him a second chance.
So now we are together and I can't seem to be happy when I'm with him!! I'm just waiting for when he is going to hurt me and how he's going to do it!

When ever I try to picture our relationship in the furutre I see me crying over him because he hurt me really bad somehow....

I have seriously no romance in me anymore! My previous boyfriends have crushed that! They have made me into a depressing person. I used to me known as the "really happy and fun girl" but that was a looooong time ago!

I try, I really try to be happy with my present boyfriend, he is nice and all but I can't seem to get there. What is wrong with me?!?!
They have crushed my spitit, my soul and a few times my will to live :'(

please help!!

You can definately find someone better, that treats you good and that you are happy with. No one should be cheated on and if he cheated on you in the beginning of the relationship, then it's better to get out now. But just remember, not all guys are like that. You do deserve someone that makes you happy. Just take your time and find someone who you are truely happy with and that you can trust.

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