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ok.. well i dont no wut to do. see its the summer so its realy hard to get together with my boyfriend but the other day im like, soo do u wanna go to the movies. n he didnt wanna go becuz hes already seen that movie or sutmhing. but i mean that isnt wut gets to me.. its just that he duz this all the time!!! n it makes me feel liek what the hell wouldnt he go just to see me? n then he never calls me anymore n whenver we do talk its nothing important. but we used to have the best relationship.. n now its like its falling apart cuz we never see eachother or talk. he told my friend yesterday that the reason he never calls me is cuz i never talk to him on the phone or sumthing but i ALWAYS talk n ergh he just always duz this... i mean he always makes me feel sad n unloved but then when we are together im realy happy. i no i shouldnt be with him if he hurts me emotionally but i love him so what else can i do? i think im also falling for another guy cuz hes always there to talk to me n hes realy sweet. agh im just soo confused n so lost.. any advice for me? (link)
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well, first off you should talk to your boyfriend and see whats going on. tell him exactly how you feel, and try to understand what he thinks about this. if you really get no reply from him, chanses are hes not into you anymore. i kno you love him, but if he hurts you hes not a good boyfriend. do what you wanna do, and what you think is right. as for that other guy, he seems sweet. he may be better for you..find out if he likes you, and of u dump your current boyfriend, maybe you can give this other nicer guy a chance. hope it works out.
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My boyfriend and I were going out for about 9 months, and i really did love him. Then we broke up, because i thought it was going to far.. and i didnt want to do all this stuff, we were broken up for about 4 months. Then we started going back out a week ago becuase i had feelings for him again, and now i dont know about our relationship.. im having doubts about it because we're going into HighSchool the same one and all but im afraid an older guy might like me, and he might be better for me... what should i do? --thanks (link)
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if you wanna stay with him, then stay with him. but if u feel your being held back and stuff, in case you may meet a better guy, then brake up with him. its totally up to you. just dont go against what you really wanna do. give it some thought, and talk to your boyfriend..then make a decision your particulary happy with.
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WELL I AM DATING THIS GUY HE IS THE SAME AGE AS ME AND EVERY BODY SAYS HE CAN GET ANY GIRL HE WANTS AND I THINK HES CHEATING ON ME I LOVE HIM BUT IM NOT GONNA DIE IF WE BREAK UP WHT DO I DO HE HASNT CALLED ME IN FOREVER ADVICE PLEASE (link)
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first u have to make sure if he really is cheating on you..if he is, then hes a jackass, and instead of him dumping you, YOU should dump his sorry ass. if he did something like that to you, hes not worth it. its alrite..youll move on and youll be happier.
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Well the thing is Im 15 and I was going out with a 19 yr old guy. Hes the sweetest person ever and I know he would never hurt me. When he moved back to NY we broke up. It was the worst feeling ever knowing that we werent together. We still talk and he calls me every night. I really do love him and he tells me that he loves me. He told me that he was moving back to PA and that he wanted to get back to gether. He just turned 20 and im still 15 is it wrong that I have strong feelings for him even if he is over age? (link)
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no not really, its perfectly fine. my dad is 7 years older than my mom. you just have to make sure you trust him fully, but unless u guys plan on getting married or something, u have to be prepared to have your heart broken by him some day if he finds a new girl or if something happens and u wont be together. go ahead and keep on feeling how u feel but be cautious.
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Ok my friend and i always go to the pool and we have guy friends that are lifeguards and i like 1 of them and hes sixteen and im 13 i like him a lot and i think he likes me but, im not so sure. if he askes me out what should i do?! (link)
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well, if age difference doesnt matter to you, then if he asks you out, go for it.
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im a 12 year old gurl.. and i like this one boy named clay! however i met him a party and he is 16 years old! i talk to him online a lot and he likes me but he lives at least 45 minites away from me and i never really see him! i like this guy more than anything and i dun no wud to0 ddo.. I have my friends find out stuff online like if he likes me or yanno! and he says that the age difference sucks and that we dun cc each other.. i just wish he would give it a chance i mean we can hang everynow and then talk on the phone everynight but idk if it working the way it is with me with him! i mean im obsesed hes all i tlak about and im sick of wasteing my fuckn tyme! w.e PLEASE HELP ME! AND THIS BOY CARES WUD HIS FRIEND SAYS THEY THINK IM OLDER BUT IM STILL ONLY 12~ HELP HELP (link)
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well, if he doesnt wanna make it work out beetween you two, theres nothing you can do. and he is sort of right, the age differnce can get in the way of alot of stuff. its alrite, youll meet a new guy you like, and he`ll like you. you`ll get over this dude. but u can continue talking online. yet if u feel your wasting your time, just stop talking to him! try to get over him, and just do anything else. something you love. if u really wanna forget about him, you will.
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I`m 15 and my ex-boyfriend is 16. We were together for 6 months before he broke up with me, and I`ve never really thought that you could love someone at 15, but he proved me wrong. We were together pretty much all the times, and we did some things that I now regret. (we didn`t go all the way though) Anyways, he dumped me in February, and now it's July, and I still miss him a lot. I`ve told myself that I`m over him like 50 times, but it`s never worked. Am I pathetic?? Or am I supposed to still love him, even though now he says that he never loved me. I`ve been with other guys since, but they haven`t been enough to take his place, and I broke it off. I`m so confused. I don`t wanna still love him, but I do. What am I suposed to do to make these feelings go away?? (link)
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well, it seems like u really did love him, and im sorry hes such a jerk for leaving u heartbroken. its ok, and i know how u feel. its gonna take while to get over it if the realationship was serious. i know it hurts, and u may still love him but u will move on. try to surround yourself around positive ppl, and do something u love to get your mind off him. breaking up is painful and not easy, and u just have to sort of wait to make your feelings go away, but ull eventually move on.
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Well, i am 13 years old. And, my boyfriend is 16. Don't get me wrong, he's a good guy and all, always considerate, and decent. But, we're going into seperate schools, and i know it is going to be a lot of hard work brought into it. And i am not sure if we're ready for it.. and i'd rather just break up now, then be hurting in the end, but i am not sure.. i like him so much it's a 6 month relationship, and i know i dont love him, but i want to try too. But, i just don't know what to do.. can you try to help me? - Thank you so much. (link)
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if u talked to him, and u both know u guys arent ready for it and cant handle a realationship when yer in different schools, then it would be best to break up now. yes itll hurt, but youll get through. but if u guys feel u can handle all the work and can manage to stay together go for it. do wat u wanna do, go with yer gut feeling. u guys can always stay in touch. but u cant MAKE yourself love him. either u do or u dont. talk to him, and eventually decide wat to do.
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Okay i have a boyfriend and weve been goin out for like 9 months, and we are both goin into highschool soon but different ones. Im really scared that we might find someone new or im jealous that hell just like other girls(think there hot pretty etc.)And i dunno what to feel or think Help please! (link)
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aww..well, unless you guys think yer gonna stay in touch and can handle going out while in different schools, you can stay together. but chanses are, you guys will meet new ppl and u may even drift apart. you really should talk to him about wats gonna happen. find out how he feels and decide where to go from there. and if it doesnt work out, u guys could always stay friends. but just communicate with him about it. you`ll get through.
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i like this guy... and hes 16.. im only 13.. and well we just met and i think i like him alot.... and he told me he liked me too.. he also told my friend that he wants to go out w/ me .. i want to get to know him first ..... do you think if we get to know each other and we do still both like each other it would be really bad for us to go out ? Because of our 3 year age diffrence? ..... help.. please =) (link)
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no not really. you guys going out would be fine. you can try it. get to know one another and make sure ya trust him, then go out if you wanna.
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This is a really long story but i desperatly need someones help and i cant tell any of my friends cuz all of them cant keep a secret. ok me and my boyfriend, andrew, have been dating 4 about 1 year & 4 months now and i've cheated on him 3 times. 1 time was with his BEST FRIEND. the 2 other times was in georgia (i live in Tennesse). my 2 cousins that im really close 2 live in GA and i went down there 4 one week and i ended up screwing some guy in there neighborhood, Josh. and then the next week i went up to GA i ended up getting fingerd by another guy in the neighborhood, chris. i know wut ur thinking: "oh this girls a slut who does shit with everyone" well im honestly not! i cant help it...its just like 1 thing leads another and i begin thinking its no big deal so i should just do it....but then later on i feel extremely guilty...should i tell my boyfriend about the times i've cheated on him or just keep it a secret? b/c i feel like i will bust and tell him the truth sooner or later just 2 get it off my chest, even though hes cheated on me once and fucked my best friend. i dont no wut to do. (link)
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wow. well, i think since you keep on doing this, and you keep feeling guilty afterwards, obviously u cant control it. the best thing would to probobly spill your guts to your bf. yes, it may ruin your realationship, but if he screwed around too maybe u guys will still be together. and dont feel way too guilty! since he cheated on u too. u guys should have a long talk, and decide wat to do. whether to stay togther and make it work, or end it. its completley in your guys's hands. good luck
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well, i was going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years, not straight but the brakes ups weren't ever more than like 2 weeks. i'm 13 and he's 13, too. but anyways, it's summer and i went to a pool party with all kids ( boys and some of my best friends that are girls ) and i kissed 2 of them on the cheek ( truth or dare ). MY BEST FRIEND TOLD HIM! i got over the fact, so i'm not mad at her... but then a couple days later, we both love eachother still and we " see " eachother cause it's summer and he doesn't want a girlfriend. it's basically like we're going out and i'm positive he's not seeing anyone else. i really do love him and i'm very sorry. it's sort of aquard but whatever. i'm glad we're doing this, but on the other hand -- he said he'd go out with me before school starts. i want to make sure he's serious and he's not just using me for the summer. how do i make sure? (link)
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well, you can either ask around..you know, ask him friends or ask your friends to talk to him. basically you cant really do anything except trust him. or just talk to him about it. hope that helps.
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i am a 14 year old girl and for over a year, i realli liked this guy even though i knew he didnt like me and we could never be together because of an age difference. when summer started i didnt see him or talk 2 him for over a month and then he calls me and wants to hang out. when i see him, he confesses that he had always liked me and didnt want to tell me because i am younger. when i didnt se him for a while, i got almost completely over him and this is so sudden. i dont know what to tell him or what to do so HELP!! plz!! (link)
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well..if your over him, and your not into him at all, just tell him yer not intrested cuz of age difference or something. but if you still like him a little you could take up his offer and hang out with him. you guys could be friends, but its completley up to you.
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i think it is aweosme that you have your own website to help people with there problems.. but any ways i have this friend and it seems liek everytime we fight it is over a stupid guy and its always her fault to start it.. she still likes her ex.. but he likes me and i like him and he lives down the street and he has been coming over my house mostly every day this summer hes liek my best friend. and we made out.. and she found out and she hates me now. i dont knwo what to do i like him alot and he likes me i guess but io dotn know how to tell her.. and she is a very suborn person and dosent listen to anything anyone tells her. please help me -thanks (link)
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aww..well, you both cant help your feelings and since you like the same guy..yeah thats a problem. this guy is getting in the middle of your friendship, and you have to decide whos more important. your friend or the guy. you guys really should talk about it, and yes you should tell her the truth and everything. if you dont want yer friendship ruined, you both may have to put aside your feelings for the guy. but you guys should defenitley talk it out and hear what the other has to say, without fighting. it`ll help you figure out what to do.
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i feel sorta stupid asking this but i really need someones advice! i am really shy when it comes to the opposite sex...i dont know why! i know im pretty good looking so i dont understand why im not confident enough to talk to a guy. im so shy that i dont even like talking to guys on the phone b/c im scard that i will make a fool of myself! i no its pathetic and im 13 and i should be over this by now. can u give me any advice on how i can be less intimidated when it comes to being around guys? i feel like such a loser! all my friends arent shy in front of guys at ALL! any help?
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god. i know you feel..especially since im like..the shyest person ever, espeically with guys!! but its totally ok..yer only 13, you have alot of time to get used to boys!! i kno its hard, but try not to worry so much about what they think. have a lil confidence in yourself. have yer friends back you up! it ok. one day youll get to know a guy, and hell love you cuz he got to kno who you really are.
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well i have a boyfriend and we been together not that long but i was with some1 b4 him but the guy i was with was not my boyfriend we just acted like it then my bf now asked me out and i said yeah so i stoped being with the other guy then me and my bf broke up and then i started being with the other guy again plus he is like mmy best friend but i still had other feeling for my bf that dumped me but then we got back together and im not sure i should tell my friend wut shold i do im realll confussed (link)
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woah. confusing story. thats kinda hard to understand, but all i can say is, you cant control your feelings and if u have feelings for another guy while you have a bf, you should either break up and spill your guts, or stay that with him. decide who you like and who you wanna be with, then do what you want to do and what u think is best
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me n this guy we were best friends n then we started to like each other so we talked like we were going out but his excuse for not wanting to go out is " it will mess up our friendship" but he is the type of guy who uses gurls n i was stupid n still did something with him n now i regret it n the day after he started going out with this gurl n his excuse was i couldnt have u so im just using her so we stopped talking n now he wants to b my friend again n im afraid the same thing will happen again .. wat do u think i shud do ? (link)
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i think to avoid this whole mess again, is to just stay friends. and if he just uses girls anyway, then theres no point in going out with him. it isnt exactly right. you should give him another chanse at friendship, but make sure you trust him.
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alright.. im starting to like this guy i liked a long time ago again. and i dont want to. we dont really talk anymore and we accuse each other of hating each other. i dont want to like him but i do. how can i try and forget him and not care? (link)
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well, you guys really have to work at it. you cant help your feelings. but if you wanna make it work out, you have to make sure you trust him, and you both have to be willing to work at it. find out how he feels about you. if you really wanna forgive him and not care, then do so, but be careful and make sure your making the right decicsion. but you guys absoulutley have to communicate and let each other know how you feel. let it all out to him if you can, and see how it goes.
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okay my boyfriend got a lap dance and got flashed by a girl besides me .. and he still told me he was sorrry and he loved me but i dont know if i should break up with him .. what should i do? (link)
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you could give him another chanse, and make it work out. but if he did something like that while you guys were going out, it might not work. you may of lost his trust, and he may be chaeting or be capable of it. its up to you what to do, but be cautious.
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I have this friend, who is a boy, but I think Im starting to have feelings for him, what should I do? (link)
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first, find out if he has feelings for you. you can try to give him hints that your into him, and he`ll eventually get it. you guys could end up going out. but if he doesnt have feelings for you, dont push it, you might ruin your friendship.
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