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I guess you can say I am a born advice giver, my family and friends all ask me for it, its kind of a gift! I really love helping others, its what i was born to do and people like oprah and tyra banks inspire me so much! I don't give advice based on what i feel i give it on the basis of what is right, just and moral. I think that is so important, to give advice free of bias!

I like giving advice mainly on relationships and to people with low self esteem and basically anyone who is genuine in wanting some help!

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My boyfriends brother is really cute and well when i am at my boyfriends house and he is there i cant help but be attracted to him!!! It that bad, just because i feel attracted to him does it mean that i should break up with my boyfriend. I dont think i like him, i really like my boyfriend but all my friends think his brother is hotter. Also his brother tried to kiss me behind my boyfriend back last week... is this bad and should i tell my boyfriend? Or should i confront his brother about it? HELP!!!!

Its perfectly ok to feel attracted to your boyfriends brother, its natural as you are growing up and you have a lot of extra hormones running around your body!!!

I think the biggest issue that i want to solve is the fact that he tried to kiss you. He had no right to do this to you AND least of all to his own brother. He needs to be told that this kinda of behaviour is unacceptable and he cant go around kissing other peoples partners!!!

I think you should tell his brother, just keeping it between you and him, that you did not appreciate him trying to fool around with you when he knew perfectly well that you were his brothers girlfriend!

Tell him this and do it quickly, he needs to know...

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I met my BF 6 months ago in a club and at the time i told him i had an italian background because i thought it was cool and i can get away with saying that cos i am dark.

now my parents are coming to see us next week and have refused to go along with the story, and i know he will raise it when we go out to dinner.

what shall i do? I really need advice!!

Ok well its obvious that your parents aren't going to go along with it, so on your behalf telling the truth is the best thing that you can do. Im sure he isnt going to break it off just because you are not italian...he loves you for you being you and not that you could have an italian heritage. If the topic does come up at dinner, casually laugh and mention that you really are unsure if you even have italian in the family and ask your parents infront of him about your origins. It creates conversation and interaction, he gets to find out about your REAL heritage and gets props from your folks who will love it that hes interested in the family! Trust me, he will enjoy the mini history lesson and your parents will love him all the more for listening!

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hey. well, i'm 14/f. well, i'm just gonna cut to the chase. i suck at talking to boys. i've just started high school, and i always see all these girls talking to guys and giving them hugs and stuff, but i'm just too shy and not good at talking to them. i know their just other people, but somehow i find that when i get around guys i tend to be mean and rebelious (sp). i'm not lesbian or bi or anything, but idk. there was this one guy last year in like all of my classes and i really liked him, and i mean a lot, and i could always talk to him pretty well, but he's not in any of my classes this year, and he has a gf, and i still like him. but idk. i just need some HELP! thanks!

Ok it seems that boys can be scary when your'e 14...

Take me for example. When i was 14 I'd find myself shaking at the site of a guy, especially ceratin guys who were classed popular, when i'd see them walking towards me in the hall. If they'd even so look at me id wonder 'oh no whats wrong, what do i have on my face, oh no is it a zit coming up, HELP!' and make a mad rush to the toilet to check!

When it all comes down to it, in reality... the more you worry the more 'un-approachable' you will come across and the less likely a guy will talk to you.

Talking to guys is so hard at first. You will stutter and think 'what next' constantly and im afraid to say as you get older it doesnt get any easier!

I know what its like when you see the confident girls getting hugs and getting attention from them but trust me, boys will start talking to you if you show them your'e a smart girl and have a lot to give in a friendship.

Take the step of sitting somewhere new in class one day, try raising your hand more in class discussion and getting your name known. From there is easy, just in the yard if they are playing sport join in, or compliment a boy which they love! If you have msn or computer chat try adding them on there and starting a conversation after school too, its a good conversation starter for the next day!

Good luck, and remember boys like it when you are yourself!

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how can i avoid making out with my bf. I mean he wants to make out all of the time. And i dont want to make it obvious that i dont want to. We are going to watch a movie together on wednesday .

If you have ideas please let me know.

Ok, well if this guy is your boyfriend its safe to say that you really like him right?

If the feeling is mutual, he should be liking being around you for you, and not wanting to touch you and be close to you 'in that way' all the time.

You need to work out if all he wants is to make-out with you and use you for this only OR hopefully he likes you for you and is happy just being close to you.

Making-out should be special and not something that becomes a chore. Mix it up a bit, kiss him spontaneously, kissing doesn't have to take place at a certain time and its better when it isnt anticipated! Thats the beauty of love so they say!

If the boy is using you for all the wrong reasons id give him the flick and look for a guy whos interested in talking to you, not just using your mouth for his own purposes!!!

Good Luck!

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