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I really like this guy and we have hung out acouple of times. We've done things but not sex or oral sex. We both want to do more then that but I want a real relationship also (we are not going out) Do you guys think doing alot of sexual things before going out could ruin the chances of a good relationship or possibly make them stronger? thanks :o)
yea umm i think doing that kind of stuff is bad neways so please dont!yes it could definetley ruin a relationship!
ok its a long one. i just moved to this state 2 months ago and everyone is contry as hell i mean gold teeth, 10,000$ rims on a 1976 impala contry i had trouble meeting pepoel that i could relate to. (im from the east coast)Now i have found three man they each have what i am looking for one is a firefighter ,the other works at the radio station but is in school for broadcasting(his dad is a broadcaster at the local station) and the last has a great job he graduated and is making serious money. they all want me. i dont know who to choose the one who graduated takes me to fine restarants and we drink wine and go to the do theater which has always been my dream but he cant kiss to save his life. the firefighter is older has his own home and well older man know how to make a woman feel right opens doors,pays the check, ect. Now the youngest is very outspoken and tells in how it is which is good for me he keeps me grounded and in the real world they all have what im looking for. if i knew who loved me more thats the i would choose so does anyone know away i can test their feelings please let me know. all confused
if he's older...then i say no, dont go for nething like that
theres this girl who keeps annoing me about me asking her out-the thing is i never did ask her out- she wants me to ask her out = i dont want t ask her out-now shes got the whole school turned against me-wat should i do?
well just tell her how u feel. try not to crush her tho!
*SORRY THIS IS REALLLY LONG, BUT I NEED YOUR HELP*
okay so , ever since the beginning of school there was this guy that I liked, Rob. Hes really cute and everything, hes a freshman and im a sophomore. Well. I never did anything about it because well, Rob seemed as if he were out of my league. and he never paid attention to me. Well I know his mom because his mom works at the school and i have 2 classes with her. So what happens is, last week. I go to lunch and my friend has bible study with robs mom....my friend told me that Robs mom said that Rob has been trying to talk to me for the longest time and everytime he gets a chance,I walk away by accident...So I didnt believe it at first, but then my friend goes, and she works at a resturaunt, and Rob went to the resturaunt alone...So since he went alone, my friend had a waitress friend of hers go talk to him so she goes up to him and askes "Do you know a girl named Kelly" and he goes "Yeah" and she goes" Do you think shes hot" and he goes " I think shes pretty, shes not ugly" and she asked a bunch of questions...so it ended up that he was supposed to talk to me the next day at lunch, I knew he wasnt going to , so my friend was like * FINE im gonna go talk to him* and im like * FINE i dare you* i didnt think she would...but she did...and i dont know WHAT she said, but i deicided to try to be unnoticable, but she pointed right at me when i was sitting on the cafeteria floor... well i got home, and i asked my this friend of mine Justin, who also knows Rob...for Robs sn...he gives it to me, and i told him to keep it all on the downlow that i asked for it...then he goes "lol do you know who he likes" and I was like " no who" and he goes " I donno 0:)* and he puts the angel face, and everytime i asked him ... he put the angel face. WELL then I go onto my myspace, and i see that Rob commented on my page and he says "Heyy this is Rob. Whats up? Oh, and your friend, really did ask me those questions just so you know...oh can i have your sn if you have one, comment back on my page and give it to me byee* and so i was like * woooowwww he asked for my screen name* but yeah, then i talked to him twice already online...and hes extremley nice, and well the second time i talked to him , we were talking about Napoleon Dynamite, and randomley he goes * so are you going to the dance* and the dance is on the 26th...and i was like * neh , who knows, I dont really wanna go if i dont have anyone to go with you know? If not, then im just plannin on going to the movies that night or something who knows :-)* and i was like what about you? and he goes * idk i might not sure yet* and so i was like * ooo cool* and then i told him that i saw him at the other dance with his ex, and he tells me how much he hates his ex now and he asked me if i had any x's and i go * nope* and he goes * oh you dont? Im sorry* and im like * nah its fine, ive had my chances blah blah blah * and then he goes * so im guessing youve never done anything with a guy...or have you* and i go * nah i havnt lol, id rather have a guy who likes me for who i am, rather than for what i do* and he says * good choice* and then he had to leave, but, yeah, me and him dont talk at school i guess its cuz were shy , but i mean... why would his mom say * hes been trying to talk to her for a while* you know? I dont know, do you think hes interested in me...do you thimk he likes me? or what....OH and I asked Justin if Rob liked a freshman and he said * yeah he likes a freshman girl* so me being a sophomore..its not me...and then Rob goes and tells me that Justin is dumb and that I shouldnt talk to him and i asked if he lies and he said * ummmmm yeahh* and i go *even when it comes to keeping friends secrets?* and he goes * yup* and so I dont know...what do you think?! HELP!!!
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wow!!Rob likes you!!go for it!and pls rate me im new!!
i like this guy but hes taken! Hes gone out with his current gf for a year and 1/2. All theyve done is kiss...not even made out! He told me that he wants more physical things in a realationship like possible making out after a year n 1/2 of dating...then he asked me how far i would go with someone i really cared about...as if he was hinting toward something...I told him i'd go far...I don't want to be the cause of a break up of a realationship that has lasted for such a long time....But i think he may like me....what do i do??
well,if its been a year and a half idn if theres much you can do...just dont flirt!
ok .... welL .. mYy friend likes my boyfriend who i love sO0o much!! but thats not alL .. last year me and her both liked him sO0o he asked me out . we went out 4months broke up went out for 2months then they went out 3months broke up me and him went out and now me and him have been goin out for 3months and hes the oonly boy i have accually really loved ... now that she likes him im scared that she'lL take him from me like before. because them to always talk online and telL eachother EVERYTHiNG ... and i kinda get jealous because he doesnt telL me everything ... HELP ME ... Love, Lost
dear lost,
i think if he's pursuing her and went out with her for a lil while then maybe he's not as great as you think...if he really luvs you then he wouldnt break up with and go out with your frend and then go back 2 you,if he does this more than either tell him it should stop or just let him go.but maybe u should just chill about the part where he tlks 2 your frend unless its like hes flirting...hope i could help!
I am 14 and a female. There is a guy at school that I think is really cute. We both have history together and I will sometimes see him looking at me. I want to talk to him so bad, but I have never said anything to him before. What should I do?
talk to him!!if he's cute and u have class 2gether,then say sumthing!!go for it im rootin you on!
well me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 3 months then all of asudden he says he wants to take a break. i asked him why and he said we need to live our lifes. what do you think he ment by that?
i dont really think he wants 2 c other girls,i think that (sum1 alreddy sed this)that he needs 2 work on sum other stuff in life rite now..he still luvs you,just take a break a chill he'll come bac!and if he dosent,then its still gonna b ok!
ok my boyfrend broke up wiht me a couple months ago and we were going out for like 5 months and i have never gotten over him and its like he has gotten a girlfrend and then they brok up a while ago and then he got another girlfrend and he broek up wiht her and now he has a girlfrwend and they have all cutt over him- ( and so have i ) but its like i really really love him people are alwasy tellin me to get over him im too young to be in love but ok i think i really love him and i cant get over him and i really dont want to- i dont kno wutt to do and i need help lik ive told him ive loved him and now hes just lik nice to me sometimes and mean to me sometimes, I DONT KNO WUTT TO DO! please help me, i love him more thne anything and i sreiously would die over him, im up to doing anything to get him back and my sn is i lov boys699 `s0 if you have any ideas please help me !
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i think you should just let him go and move on,its the best thing you can do now,so dont keep thinking baout him,its just a boy there will b plenty more!~
There is a guy I like that we have been talking for a while now and normaly he would call me and when we talked he was real sweet we acted like we went out but now he has stopped calling and I haven't heard from him in like 3 days.I really like him I've called him but when I do he's not home or he is busy.I don't really know what to do or to think plz help??What can I do to fix anything? thanks an advance
well,i think that if he's been saying he's busy or not home wen u call,then i think you should let this guy go.sry 2 break it 2 you but i dont think you should waste your time wating 2 hear calls from him if it's been awhile.maybe he doesn't want 2 hurt ur feelings and he doesnt no how 2 say hes not ready for a relationship.