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i went somewhere this weekend. but before i left i was talking to my boyfriend. and he was in a really really bad mood. he was supposed to get a phone call about this thing that he had to do. the person hadnt called him yet. and i was about to leave i had called to say bye and he told me that if he didnt get his phone call it would be over and when i asked him what he meant he said "it will b over" i was so scared the whole time i was gone. then when i got back today, his moms car was at the church and i was afraid that he had killed himself while i was gone. but he hadnt. he had been very suisidal latly. should i talk to him about it?

well yeah talk to him about it. tell him how much he means to you and tell you need him and find out what the call was about and who it was from. and tell him that you love him. but if i were you i would try to help him and if he doesnt say nething about it just break up with him. you dont need that if he isnt going to tell you stuff then he isnt worth it. just talk to him though he may need someone to talk to about it.

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my boyfriend hadnt talked to his ex fiance in over 4 years. last monday they started talking again. and now he plans on going to see her this summer. i was pretty upset when i found out. but should i be worryed about him going and cheating on me?

i would because if they were almost to the point where they were going to get married then that means they loved each other alot and if its true love it will always find awayback.. but thats just me. find out why they didnt get married and stuff and find out why he wants to go see her and why she cant come down here to see him. just t alk to him..

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How are you supposed to comfort ur boyfriend when one of his friends die and the other is in critical condition in the hospital? he says hes fine but I know he isn't.

dont. just let him have his space. when someone dies that your close to you need to vent some people do it different ways. just back off and when he is ready he will come to you. just let him know you are always there for him and when he is ready your there. and just let him do what he needs to do.

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what is the easiest way to tell if a guy tells you that he likes you to either make you happy or to get you off his back???... because there is this guy who told me he liked me but now i get the feeling he only did it because he didnt want to hurt me so im trying to figure out how to tell if he really meant it or if he just said it for that reason.

ok if this is michelle benji said get over yourself.. she said that maybe you need to start talking to guys yourself instead of sending other people to do it because thats how you start to get attached to ppl is by talking to them..

answering the question now..
there really isnt a way to tell if a guy really likes you.. just wait it out.. and if he really likes you then he will eventually ask you out.. if he doesnt really like you he will find someone else..

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Theres this guy who i really like and he says he likes me too but he wants us to "date" more before we actually become girlfriend and boyfriend because he says it will help him get to know me more... should i agree to that or should i forget about him and move on???

you should agree.. it seems like he wants to go out with you but he wants to know you more.. getting to no someone before you go outwith them does help alot.. i mean would u rather go out with someone you dont no and then find out that you rly dont have anything in common and then break up and go through the whole i hate you stuff or would you rather get to no the person and if they dont have things in common then just be N friends and if u do then you 2 can go out ..
i think its easier to get to no the person so go with his idea.. it rly wont hurt.. its a good idea

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hah..funni you dont know who this is...

so what..thats the whole point of this

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hi homemadeshakes, there's a girl that i really love and care about and have for a long long time. we've gone out before but not quite sure why we stopped. she's been going out with different guys since then and ive dated other girls but she has met a guy she really likes but i havent with the girls. i talk to alot them now and hung out with a few..gone out with one. i try to like them and i have one of them alot i thought but i still feel so empty with her..then i think about the old girl that i still love. we still talk and r good friends but i keep wanting to stop hearing her voice on the phone and completely stop talking to her because it hurts alot. what do you think i should do?

well sir.. tell her how you feel.. maybe she feels the same way about you she just doesnt thing you still like her that way.. if you think that not talking to her for a while is going to help just tell her that you still love her and that you want to be friends with her but its hurting you right now.. and you need some timee to get over her.. just talk its the best thing for you right now.. holding your feelings wont get you anywhere very far.. trust me.. i know..

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okay well im a guy and in the locker room at school after football practice i look at the other guy's asses and i get this really weird feeling.. i think i'm gay. what do i do when i tell people?what do i say?

umm... i dont know what you should do. i guess just tell them your gay. i dont know

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i have been single for a long time and its really hard for me to get into a relationship... wht should i do to maybe help me get a boyfriend or should i just let them come to me??

just let them come to you. it wont be so stressful. promise dont worry about it

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hey i dont know wut im talkin aboot but i love u susan wut shouldi do i love u

jaimes i love you sooo much but only as a brother. you are like a older bro to me. sorry to tell you but the only person that i love like that is tony. but i will try to get those girls numbers love you muahh

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Well there is this one person iv liked since Spring Break and shes liked me since December... I think im in love w/ her.. But she has a b/f she really likes , she said she loves me 2 but i dont want to ruin her relationship w/ the person shes w/ so i told her that i think i shouldnt b talking to her about "us" and the other night i talked for her from like 11 to 2:30 and all we talked about were "us" and she wants me to come see her thursday at some thing but i unno what to do , should i go? should i try to forget my love for her?

aww thats hard. but if i were you i wouldnt believe her when she says that she loves you. im going to tell you almost the same thing i told michelle. if she really loves you back then she would break up with the guy she is going out with now. i wouldnt forget your love for her but i wouldnt let that love be the only love i have. it kinda reminds me of romeo and juliet. romeo is in love with this girl that doesnt love him back but he soon gets over her.
you need to talk to this girl. tell her that if she really has feelings for you she needs to stop going behind her boyfriends back. that just mean. also think if she teling you she loves you and stuff and she has a boyfriend and then they break up and you 2 start going out you dont know she could be doing the same thing to another guy.
but choose what you think is best. if you think that its better to just forget you love her then do it. and y not go. you can still be friends just dont do anything with her. if you know what i mean (wink wink) just talk. do what friends do
this is kinda getting long so i will see you in class tomarrow

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ok so theres this guy who i am like in love with and yea he wants us to be together but its like he wants to see other people to wht do i do just tell him tht we can be friends or should i just go along with it and see how long it takes him to realize im really the only one he wants to be with?

if he really loves you as much as he says he does then he wouldnt even dream of another girl. you just need to forget him. stop taking his bullshit. he doesnt love you. if he thinks he loves you then he has never been in love. all he is going to do is hurt you. as your "mother" i say you just forget him and move on. you may love him but he is just leading you on. i think thats what you call it. if not you know what i mean. well i will talk to you at school love you alot
love your mom
haha (good times)

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i know a girl at my school who likes this guy and i also like him me and the other girl arent friends but the guy we both like says he likes me should i go out with him or just stay away from him and let her have him?

ok this is what i would do. i would just let him choose who he wants to go out. dont say stuff about the other girl to him and if she says stuff to him about you just dont say anything back. iknow how tempting it is just dont do it. it will cause a big fight. just wait and see if he will ask you out or you can ask him out. whatever makes you feel better.
if this doesnt help you then i guess you can try asking another ? or sending me an im
adamsmyhusband01

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theres this guy at my school who i like and hes single but i dont know if i should gof or it and ask him out or wait and see if he asks me out... what should i do??

ive had this happen to me alot before. are you friends with the guy you like? if you are find out if he likes you. if your not friends with him then make friends with him. find out what he likes.
go ahead and ask him out. if you wait to long he he might be taken. but do what ever makes you happy

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there is a guy that i know and he wants to take my kid a way cuz he know i love him alot and he thinks he is going to turn out like me what should i do

ashley ur crazy i know its u cuz u tell me everything. dont worry about coby he is just doing what his parents are telling him to do. if his parents wernt there to help him he would be sitting at home watching the tv that isnt turned on cuz he doesnt know how o turn it on.

just dont worry about it you are a good mom and coby is an ass. just keep doing what you are doing
love you alot

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