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I like this guy..and i heard he likes me from his friends and i want to hang out with him. But..the thing is he's not one of those guys who you can call up and invite him somewhere. He's different..he doesnt do much and he only has like 3 or 4 close friends. He's not a loner or nething..i mean he has friends at school but he never hangs out. Only with like maybe 4 of his closest friends. Well..i want to to hang out with him..what do i do?

start a conversation with him in school or online, and be like "so, what do you usually do on friday nights? oh, cool, thats what i do too!" and meet him there. if he just stays home ask him if him and some of his friends would wnat to go to the movies or skating with you and some of your friends.

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i am suppost to go to this party tonight with a couple of my friends. this guy i know wants me to go so i can hear his band play. But most of the people there ((except for like 6 people)) i dont really know very well, and dont really like to much. I kinda want to go but wat if the think "why is she here?" so should i go? and the guy is gunna ask me out there, and i kinda wanna say yes, and i kinda wanna say no.. wat should i say? Ill Rate!

go and just hang out with the people you're comfortable with. you always have the option of leaving in the middle of the party, too. just say you have to be home early because tomorrows your grandmothers birthday or something.

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