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My boyfriend confessed to me today that he cheated on me last weekend when he went out with his buddies. He said that he had sex with a strange girl that he met at a club/bar and he regrets doing it now. I still think he's lying about a few of the details because one of his buddies told me that they didn't go to just any club or a bar--they went to a strip club.
I'm really upset about it but my boyfriend says he's truly sorry and that it won't happen again. My best friend reminded me of the saying, "Once a cheater, always a cheater," and I am wondering if it's true. I don't think my boyfriend fully understands what his mistake has done to our relationship, and I don't know if I will be able to get over this betrayal anyway.
In your own experience, is the, "Once a cheater, always a cheater," saying true? Does anyone have any cases in which the saying is NOT true? Please, share your experiences with me so I know if I need to just end this madness before it really gets started! (link)
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In my opinon, it is true, for some people. If your boyfriend is going to strip clubs and having sex with some random girl, he is not worth of your time/love.
Ask tyourself these questions:
1. Does he love you 110%?
2. Would he want to be cheated on?
3. Do you deserve to be cheateed on?
4. Would you do the same to him?
5. Do you know that this is the first time he has cheated?
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