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Age: 28
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when my boyfriend and i (both 17) make out, sometimes i sit backwards in his lap. like with my legs spread and his legs together so our 'privates' are usually touching. we never remove clothes. that's one of our rules. we make out and usually grind while kissing. i let him run his hands up under my shirt, but not touch my boobs. he never has and we've agreed not to go that far. this is very satisfying for both of us, but sometimes the same old making out gets kind of old. does anybody have any tips for making this a little hotter? we're not giving handjobs, blowjobs, or taking off clothes just to clarify.. are there any sexy kissing tips? like what can i do with my hips to turn him on more while sitting like this? or where do i kiss to turn him on? he really likes this, and i just don't want him getting bored. any suggestions help. thank you! :) (link)
Guys get crazy when you lick their ear lobe (lol, its true!)



hey, i believe in the zodiac stuff. So, i was wondering if me and my boy friend are a good match. My birthdays july 22 so i'm a cancer. He's a gemini? I think we are a good match, but i just want to check. ahah thanks for helping:) (link)
Try:

http://astrology.about.com/od/geminilovematches/qt/GeminiCancer.htm


15/f (the guy is 16)... first off, I'd like to say that I think that "loving someone" and "being in love" are different things... anyways so I've been going out with this guy for 3 weeks and one day and I think it's just going GREAT :) which is just amazing because I am terrible at relationships... I've had a lot of really really short term relationships... There were only 2 guys that I was really serious about (before this one) but now i'm over them. Now, about my new boyfriend :) this guy is just...wow he's perfect... I don't think I've ever met a guy that I've had such a connection with :) we just have so much in common and I can always just be myself around him... I'm his first girlfriend and I was his first kiss so I guess I'm pretty special to him... I've kissed guys before him, but it never felt as special as it is now :) I really honestly think I love this guy...not like "in love" but I can see myself falling in love with him someday...the thing is, I can get majorly paranoid about him. Like I'm always afraid I'm going to lose him and I would seriously be crushed if he broke up with me... It's like everytime I sense something is a little off in his voice or if we're texting and he doesn't reply for a while, I will be freaking out thinking he's going to break up with me :( and I HATE that feeling because I just want to feel like he's mine and I won't ever lose him but I just can't let myself do that because I'm scared I'll get hurt really bad... is there anyway to get rid of this paranoid feeling? I feel like it's holding me back from being closer to him and I hate it :( (link)
It's natural , it all boils down to trust and insecurity.

I am 28 , and still learning this!!

He needs to be aware how scared you get sometimes, he probably has no idea.


okay so i really really like this guy.
he is 18 and im 14 (about to be 15 in october 20). last night he went to my towns football game and he said the night before that he is going to ME! well last night when he came, like after 5 minutes or so he said that he will be right back. so when he left, me and my friend left where he was going because we were sitting on the visitors side. so we sat on our home side and he saw us but he never came back. and then he went to his friends and everytime girls came in the group and talked to him. and yeah i got jealous and madd. well after like 20 minutes he still ddidnt come. so my friend texted him saying that he is fucked up because he left me and that im fixing to leave. but then he came and after five minutes he left again so i was like going to my friends and it went on like that for a while. but then we just didnt hang out at all for the rest of the game. im like yea sure he came for me when he just leaves me. and then after the game, it was me and my other friend and him, we walked to the gas station and on the way there they were flirting and they just like left me. like they were like 10 feet infront of me and they didnt even look behind them for me. so i was tickkkeedd! and then later that night he texted me when i left saying "this isnt gonna work". so i almost started crying. and he said that he never flirted with her or whatever. so idk what to do anymore. i really like him but idk! please help me.

(he thinks im 15) (link)
Tell him how you feel, and how that evening made you feel. Ask him what he is looking for and what does he expect from you.

You need to know where you stand.




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