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ok...so i'm 13 and my boyfriend is 16 we make out a lot, but we also have a lot in common. He said he wasn't going to pressure me, but he would really like to have sex with me. I told him i'm just not ready and he's ok with that, since we just started going out. But he asked if it was ok if he WENT DOWN on me. I said maybe...is that ok? he already puts his hands in my shirt and i kinda i like it. But i also don't want to be like a whore. (((P.S. i've known this boy for about 3 years.. so we know each other pretty well))) Also is it ok that i go out with a boy 3 years older than me?( he just turned 16 )
do what you feel is the right thing to do.if you want him to go that far with you then that is your desicion.but just remember nobody can make you do anything.maybe you should try new things and since youve known each other for like 3 years then you should be able to trust him.(do you get what im saying?)i lost my virginity when i was 12 so dont feel like a whore! just because you do something like having sex doesnt make you a whore or anything like that!if you love him and love him then maybe you should try it!
hope i helped!!!
~much love~
cutie4u13
i like this really hot guy and i never talk to him how do i get him to like me because hes in the "popular group" and i am normal
the number one thing you should do is be youself.start hanging around with some of his friends.maybe you can find out what he likes to do.where his friends are he will be there so you will be able to talk to him about anything.try to be funny.guys love a funny girl.
good luck
i've been with this guy for a really long time now, and i'm finding it hard to find things to talk about. also, he is very hard to keep a conversation with.
what everyday things could i bring up? or what are some new things to talk about?
ask him questions like what is ur favorite color? talk about your embarassing moments. to tell u the truth i have a boyfriend just like yours and we never find anything to talk about.but some days we talk each others heads off but some days.....well its different!start talking to him about sexually envolved things.that will work.trust me!!!
good luck
In a quick summary i will tell u my little but big problem.
I have a date on saturday with a guy i like a lot and its our first and yah i prob wont see him that much caz he lives like a half hour away but
okay tha last time i kissed someone was in april and im kinda scared like i know something between me and this guy is going to happen. but how do i play it off and have him not know that im an inexpierance kisser?????
please help me
just go for it.trust me this has happened to me before.i was so scared but finally when it was time for us to kiss there was no problem!!
good luck.
okay my boyfriend and i have been going out for 5 1/2 months and we haven't made-out yet....i am scared to make-out...i have never made out with a guy before (sad i know) but i need help....i get all these feelings inside of me like scared, nervous, and (funny)but i get a feeling like that i think i will mess up... ihave no clue on what to do i despiratley need someone's help....( i dont know if we should try it the next time we go to the movies or what, help)
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anonymous
chill out.dont freak out about makeing out.trust me it will come natural.when the right time comes you will know what to do.if he hasnt asked or said anything about kissing since youve been going out then maybe its not you who is scared maybe its him that is scared.has he ever been kissed?trust me boys think about it as much as we do! good luck!!!and just remember :just go for it!!!