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I have alot of insight in alot of different area's.
I am open minded, and a liberal. I believe in each thier own. If it makes you happy, and your not hurting someone else with your choices, then go for it! life is just too short to be unhappy!
I am 38 years old, and I have been through it all!
Really, through it all. so if you have a question, go ahead and ask, and I will do my best to provide you with honest insight.
Sometimes we just need to hear what we already know, from a person who is not involved. BE HAPPY!
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what is love? how do u know when u r in love? please help cause i have wanted to know for a long time (link)
WHEN U FIND TRUE LOVE, YOU WILL UNDOUBTLY KNOW!



OK, Before me and my boyfriend were going out we were bestfriends. We've been going out for a week and I have realized that I like being just friends with him. I can talk to him better if we were friends. How do I break up with him without hurting our friendship? (link)
IF YOU WERE BESTFRIENDS, THEN ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS TELL HIM THAT! IF YOU COULD TELL HIM ANYTHING BEFORE, YOU STILL CAN. JUST BE HONEST WITH HIM, AND TELL HIM THAT YOU NEED HIS FRIENDSHIP MORE THEN YOU NEED A BF AT THIS TIME. DONT ALLOW A GAP TO FORM AFTER YOU TELL HIM THIS, STILL CALL HIM, AS MUCH, IF NOT MORE THEN BEFORE, TO SHOW HIM THAT YOU ARE STILL THERE, AND THAT YOU NEED HIM AS A FRIEND. HE WILL UNDERSTAND, IF YOU JUST KEEP UP THE CLOSE CONTACT WITH HIM. YOUR NOT SO MUCH AS BREAKING UP, YOU ARE JUST NOT GOING TO BE ROMANTICALY INVOLVED. BREAKING UP MEANS TO BE AWAY FROM EACH OTHER. THATS NOT WHAT YOU WANT RIGHT? MAYBE HE FEELS THE SAME WAY, AND DONT KNOW HOW TO TELL YOU. BUT DONT WRITE A NOTE, TELL HIM FACE TO FACE, SO HE KNOWS YOUR NOT JUST BLOWING HIM OFF. IT WILL BE OK



Mkay.. im 13 and i am really falling in love with my boyfriend. Like i want to be with him for the rest of my life and ive never felt this way before. How do i know if this is really true love? Is it to eairly to have a serious relationship?

p.s. my aunt found her true love in Jr.High. they got married so maybe it will happen to me! (link)
13 YEARS OLD, IS WAY TOO YOUNG TO HAVE SUCH A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP. YOUR FEELINGS AREA WHAT IS KNOWN AS A CRUSH! AND THESE FEELINGS ARE VERY REAL. YOU WILL HAVE ALOT OF CRUSHES, THROUGH OUT YOUR LIFE, WHEN YOU FIND THE RIGHT ONE, YOU WONT HAVE TO ASK IF IT REALLY TRUE LOVE, YOU'LL JUST KNOW!
AND AT 13 YOU HAVE YOUR WHOLE LIFE AHEAD OF YOU, DONT BE IN SUCH A HURRY TO GROW UP, ITS NOT WHAT IT CRACKED UP TO BE IN THE ADULT WORLD! AND YOU WOULD MISS OUT ON SO MUCH OF LIFE AND WHAT IT HAS TO OFFER IF YOU GET INTO A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP TOO EARLY. BE YOUNG, HAVE FUN, USE YOUR BEST JUDGMENT, AND JUST ALLOW THINGS TO FALL INTO PLACE, IF YOU TRY TO FORCE THEM, THEY WONT TURN OUT TO BE POSSITIVE!




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