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me and my boyfriend have been dating for like 3 years and well latly if feels like he doent want oto be with me. like if we get a chance to be alone or just us he always has someone come over or somehting and early in the week i asked him to come over for the day on sat. and he said he'd think about it now is going to pplay football and im so mad at him and i was so upset last night i jsut dont know what to do. and with trying to talk to him i dont know what ot say. please help. (link)
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You know what, I am pretty much going through exactly what u're going thru, only i've been dating my bf for only 6months. and sometimes when we're on a date he'll get his friends to come over, or when i ask him to come over he'll say he's lazy or busy.. And yes of course naturally i'll get upset.
But the important thing to remember is that both parties in a relationship need space. Don't push a relationship to the extent where it seems to him like you're breathing down his neck. It doesn't seem like you're in that kinda situation now, but just words of advice :)
Don't be mad. If you want to discuss this with him, do it when you're calm and ready to tell him what you wish he'd do, and tell him how much his actions displease or hurt you. And make clear to him that you'd like your time together to be special and with him alone.
Hopefully things work out between you two. Hope i helped. :) good luck dear!
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Oh no! i have a problem. this boy asked me out like a week ago and he is seriously...like so in love with me. the problem is that i dont think i really have such deep feelings for him. and i cannot break up with him because he keeps on telling me he keeps getting hurt by girls..and that i make him so happy and you know things that would make it impossible for me to break up with him. So any suggestions on maybe how to get myself to like him more?? Or even what to do?!THANKS i need it. (link)
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you gotta be honest with him. you cant force things like love, so if you find you really dont have any strong feelings for this guy, it's best to tell him straight early, so that the both of you dont get hurt in the end.
but if you think that this relationship is worth pursuing, you could always give it a chance for a little while, but make it clear to him how you feel.
what are his gd points? do you like and particularly favour any one of a couple of these strengths? perhaps he's a sweet, sentimental, romantic guy, or perhaps his drive or ambition attracts you?
think about that and whether he's a guy worth investing your time and effort into. if he is, i say give it a chance.
good luck. (:
hope what i said made sense and helps you somehow. :D
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